Step 1. Understanding.
So bạn just understood that bạn don't like this thing anymore? Lets think about it. Do bạn really want to stop? Won't bạn feel bad after it. Actually it is just theorical part of stopping being a người hâm mộ but it is important. bạn don't want to throw all your merchandise out and then cry and shout "I want it all back. I still tình yêu it." Think twice before doing tiếp theo steps.
Step 2. Big trashcan.
It is the most important and a quite symbolic step. bạn take everything off. All the posters, all little người hâm mộ things bạn have around you. Take everything away. It has symbolic meaning. Getting rid of obsession, of being a fan. Then throw everything out. EVERYTHING. Rip all the printouts, old posters. Get rid of all that. bạn are starting a new life. Congratulate yourself.
Step 3. Things that are worth money.
Probably bạn have something like CD's, DVD's, books, T-shirts, cups etc. Things that bạn have paid a money for and they are still worth it. bạn can throw them out of course but better idea is to just sell them. Maybe someone who is a người hâm mộ of a thing bạn are stopping to be a người hâm mộ of will buy them. Things are used so bạn won't probably sell them for the same price bạn bought them but anyway... Maybe your cousin likes them? Give them to him. Also bạn can donate things if bạn want. Poor people will be happy about almost new T-shirts even with bạn ex-idol pic on them.
Step 4. Digital cleaning.
Take your phone, tablet, computer and other devices and xóa everything like âm nhạc files, pics. It also may have symbolic meaning and bạn will get a lot of free không gian in your computers memory. Clean all bạn social networks profiles. Maybe bạn have Facebook banner with your ex-idols pic. Change it! Unfollow it. Unsubscribe channels in youtube. xóa thematic boards in pinterest. Stop being a người hâm mộ of các câu lạc bộ in fanpop and other fanclubs.
Step 5. Let the world know it.
Stopped being a người hâm mộ of Justin Bieber but some months later your godmother gives bạn a cup with his pic on it for christmas, thinking that bạn still like him? Don't let it happen. Tell everybody that bạn are stopping being a fan. Write an arcticle in internet like I did. Tell it to your family and friends. Let them know.
Step 6. Start a new life.
Its the best part. bạn can find a new thing to be a người hâm mộ of. bạn can simply enjoy your freedom :) Remember, stopping being a người hâm mộ is good thing and bạn don't have to be ashamed because it oppens bạn to new opportunities, new things to like. Just be happy and proud of yourself about liking what bạn like and disliking what bạn dislike and if somebody says things like "How could bạn stop being his fan?I hate bạn for it. bạn ruined our friendship." Remember that bạn can do whatever bạn want and its your life no matter what others say.
