I've noticed that there are a lot of các câu hỏi pertaining to the subject of popularity, well-known users, and admiration on this club... Some people find it harmless. Others don't care. But a lot of people do and this bài viết is for those who feel like they're not important. bạn know who bạn are.
All I have to say is... bạn are just as important as everyone else on this club. The person with 1 người hâm mộ is just as important as the person with 1,789 fans. They're just numbers. A lot of bạn need to realize that fanpop is just a website on the Internet. Popularlity on a social network should be beneath your notice.
The reason there seems to be "well-known" users on this club is because people have made it so.
bởi posting các câu hỏi and các diễn đàn and các bài viết about "well-known users," bạn are making everyone believe that there is a được ưa chuộng group when there really isn't.
These people are just admired for the things they say and their courage to stand out and be themselves.
These các câu hỏi about "popular" people only make others feel bad about themselves when they're not mentioned.
Thoughts like, "Wow, maybe I'm not good enough..." hoặc "I wish I could be as được ưa chuộng as that person," rush through people's minds and that's when jealousy and subjective behavior takes place.
Subjective behavior harvests bad feelings toward other users, and then that grows into envy.
bạn should be happy with who bạn are. That's all bạn need. And don't say, "But there's nothing good about me," because there is. You're just being too stubborn to see it.
bạn need to understand that you're not here on ngẫu nhiên to impress anyone. bạn are who bạn are. There is nobody on this earth like you. bạn are different. bạn are special.
bạn have just as much potential as the tiếp theo person on this club. Don't argue otherwise.
Everyone here should be valued. Everyone here has their own story to tell. Be happy with who bạn are and you'll be content in all the things that bạn do. Don't do anything that you'd regret.
Treat others the way you'd want to be treated. Be kind to people on this club, and they'll be kind to you. If they're not kind, you can still be kind.
The truth of the matter is that if bạn be yourself, people will admire bạn for that. People like it when bạn be yourself.
Confidence is something that people value. Don't ask yourself, "Why am I not as cool as that person? Why am I so lame? Why won't anyone admire me?" Ask yourself, "What can I do to make myself a better person today? Whose ngày can I brighten? How can I hiển thị who I really am to everybody today?"
bạn should strain to make yourself better with every passing day. Be strong. Be happy with your strengths and your weaknesses. Sometimes you're wrong and sometimes you're right about certain things. Accept your weaknesses and grow from that. You'll see the difference.
If bạn have the courage to make a difference and be yourself then it doesn't MATTER if people admire bạn hoặc not. All that matters is what bạn think of yourself. bạn are thêm important than bạn deem yourself to be. Stop trying to compare yourself to someone who is completely unlike you.
Everyone makes mistakes. We are all human. Even the most perfect person with the most "perfect life" has felt the wrath of sadness and jealousy and imperfection. Let's build each other up instead of breaking each other down.
It's fine to admire people. But let's try not to bias anyone... It's impossible to compare two people because we are all so intricate in our own way.
Don't strive to be better than your contemporaries hoặc predecessors. Strive to be better than yourself.
This is an opinion article. This is my opinion. I appreciate all of your opinions, too, but please respect mine in return. That's all I ask... And that's all I have to say. Thank bạn for reading.
