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Is it possible to be in love, but not forever?

I'm in a relationship with this guy and he treats me better than any guy I've ever been with and supports me no matter what I do. He's not exactly hot but he's an amazing person and I wouldn't leave him for the world.
The problem is, I'm graduating high school this năm and he is younger than me. I don't think we'll be able to easily communicate while I'm in college and even so, what if I meet someone else and I'm still with him? Also, he's kinda not supposed to ngày so his parents don't know about me.
I care about him deeply, but I know I won't be able to stay with him forever. But does this mean I'm not really in love?
 Sprinter23 posted hơn một năm qua
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Karthigesh said:
Being in tình yêu does not mean being in a relationship forever. Being in tình yêu is having that one person there who cares for bạn no matter what, someone to support bạn and bring bạn up when bạn are down. Someone to hold when the world brings bạn down, and someone to say, no matter what bạn do, they will always tình yêu you. tình yêu is also about compromise and sacrifice, so my Lời khuyên is, if bạn honestly do tình yêu this guy like he loves you, then bạn have to try to make it work somehow, because not all long-distance relationships fail.

As a guy I can say that it is all down to effort. If the both of bạn put your hearts to it and communicate, bạn can reduce the distance almost to nothing. bạn have Skype, MSN, even Facebook, to send out a quick "Hey Dear, I'm thinking of you, have a lovely day" so that bạn will know that no matter how far 2 people are, bạn are both thinking of each other.

Being in tình yêu isn't about forever, being in tình yêu is celebrating what bạn have now, and not worrying about the future. As they say, come what may, good hoặc bad, take it in your stride and grow from it. I see he really likes bạn and bạn like him too, so talk to him, work out how bạn are gonna talk to each other when bạn go to college and then let things fall where they may.

I wish bạn the best :)
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awww... Thank bạn for the advise!! Maybe you're right.
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Donata said:
u r in tình yêu with him
cuz being in tình yêu with someone neednt be 4 ever... sometime, u hoặc he will perhaps fall in tình yêu with somebody else but thats just the way it is in this world^^
i actually think, right now u shouldnt think about what will happen later, just enjoy the time with him <3
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