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What Should I Do? (VERY long description, sorry)

I like this guy, and a few years cách đây we used to be really close Những người bạn (really close)I was falling for him hard. i think he used to like me (he showed all the signs)...but then school ended and he started dating this girl during summer... and that really wrecked our friendship. I still wanted to believe we were Những người bạn but it was clear it was fading away. They were dating on and off for a while.. and he became controlling. She was stupid for wanting to get back with him after he hurt her for so long.
I thought they were going to stop for good but they're back together and i told the girl i still had feelings for him. She told me that he supected i liked him....Maybe its clear that i should just tell him how i feel and not be shy... but i need others opinions. It would be greatly appreciated :)


 FireByrd15 posted hơn một năm qua
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Karthigesh said:
I suggest bạn talk to him. But talk about BOTH your feelings and also how bạn feel with regards to the friendship. Tell him how it hurts bạn that bạn can't enjoy the things that bạn used to, with him when bạn were good friends, and that even if he didn't like bạn back, bạn hope that he would see how much bạn want the friendship to work and not to lose him entirely. This part is crucial. From your description, I think deep down, bạn just don't want to lose this person from your life, neither do bạn want to see him hurt, so tell him how bạn feel and what is the real deep emotion that is eating at bạn inside. bạn will feel better knowing bạn told the person how bạn felt and I hope that he works hard to maintain that bond bạn 2 have had :)

bạn seem like a very caring and loving person, so I wish bạn the best :)
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posted hơn một năm qua 
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wow. thank you. haha this helps. I've just got to find a good time to tell him all this... i hope he doesnt think im being dramatic :)
FireByrd15 posted hơn một năm qua
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If he loves you, even as a friend, he will take all the time in the world to hear bạn out and won't think of bạn any differently than the amazing person bạn really are :)
Karthigesh posted hơn một năm qua
swiddlewiddle said:
Gurl, do not tell him bạn like him! No, it's a huge mistake! Think about it! He has a girlfriend, if he does like you, he'll have to choose between bạn and her, and this will hurt him :(. And if he doesn't like you, well...
Anyway, bạn should talk with him about your friendship with him. Tell him about what bạn guys used to be, and that bạn want it back.
But who am I to say all this? Maybe you're different bởi me, cuz i'd rather die than tell my crush that i like him. :D
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posted hơn một năm qua 
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well said!!!!
suzyisbrute posted hơn một năm qua
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thanks :)
swiddlewiddle posted hơn một năm qua
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