So where exactly are bạn supposed to meet these great new pals? Sitting in your room isn't going to make it happen! Start bởi getting involved in the activities and interest bạn already tình yêu whether it's an online Winx người hâm mộ club hoặc a local bóng chuyền league. Being the new kid in the group will feel weird at first, but remember, you're all there because bạn share the same interests. What could be a better ice breaker? If bạn think you're already way involved and still aren't connecting with people, it might be time to step back and re-evaluate how bạn act around others. Don't be too haughty hoặc condescending. It is far thêm important to be nice than be interesting. Instead of heading straight trang chủ after a game, grab a pizza, bánh pizza with the team. The thêm time bạn invest in getting to know others, the easier it is for them to see bạn as an A-list friend.
PS: bạn need not dress up in dandy clothes hoặc wear loud make up to attract people. thêm than artificial make up, simplicity attracts people. Smile often, make eye contact, don't look too tensed and listen to what others have to say!
Form a Study Group
Does your math teacher give super-hard exams? Is your history teacher always giving pop quizzes? Round up a few others from your class to study together each week. Ask your teacher if bạn could pass around a sign-up sheet hoặc make an announcement about the group after class.
Detach Yourself From Technology. Temporarily!
Put away your cell phone from time to time and take a look around. Who seems funny hoặc interesting? Which people in the room have bạn never talked to? Who pays attention to your ideas? Make a mental note and spend a little time getting to know these people face-to-face. When your group gets together, share notes and chat about class. Find out what your classmates like about the teacher and what they can't stand. Make flash cards together hoặc câu hỏi kiểm tra one another. Bring snacks and share what's going on in your life. You'll have new Những người bạn before bạn know it.
Slow...
Say you're seriously crushing on a guy, would bạn run up to him and announce bạn two are now a couple and you're now going to spend every single ngày together? Um, not unless bạn want him to run in the other direction. The same goes for making friends: bạn want to take things slowly at first. Wait until bạn feel comfortable talking to each other during band practice hoặc on the walk trang chủ from the thư viện before bạn suggest getting together. Skip high-pressure hoặc potentially awkward situations, like your grandpa's 85th birthday bash.
Opt for something casual: "So, have bạn seen that new movie? I thought it'd be fun to get a bunch of people together to go." Will it be totally nerve-wracking to make the first move? Probably but it'll have been thêm than worth it once the ice is broken and you're out having fun with your new friends.
And then? Don't sit back, relax and expect lasting friendships to occur. It requires communication from both sides. Therefore, call up people bạn have just met, email old Những người bạn who have moved away, drop in occasional sms just to say 'hi'.
Old hoặc new... Last but not the least - don't forget old friends. If they have moved away hoặc if bạn have moved away, be in touch with occasional phone calls and emails. Don't leave old Những người bạn for the sake of new ones.
