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pffff:))) another "advice" problem over here:/:/please...help:)


lay back and sit comfortable...I know this kind of Lời khuyên problem is being repeated and I was sometimes answering them but ...I tried and I cant give Lời khuyên to myself:)) I dont know what to.."think",precisely.
umm let me start with the câu hỏi :
what does it mean?
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So, this year,Im in yr9.... I went to a new school and came in the same time with a new guy: "Markos".
at first I didnt even think about him but then I had a really weird dream with us hugging and kissing.
the problem is...his just the really bad-guy:)))
the smoker and druggy guy who get's into the principal's office quite alot.
in lesson's I caught him staring a couple of times and now it's just akward...
1.the staring
2.the smiling
3.the...akwardness when we stay tiếp theo to eachother.
it's obvious I kinda..fell for him and my Những người bạn say we two match...pff:)))
ummm...but 2 days cách đây
he đã bình luận something..which I didnt quite understand I thought he was somewhat saying something bad...
and I said: "Markos its not your business<.< hoặc something like that (as I đã đưa ý kiến it in my language)
and...I was expecting him to start swearing like guys usually do but he just looked at me while I looked at him...nasty
my friend started shouting at me as she thinks he đã đưa ý kiến it as" defending me"(the subject doesnt matter it was a conv. with a teacher about a mark)
and the staring continued...

I thought of giving các điểm thưởng for help but wouldnt that be "forced help"
I mean if someone wants to give me an Lời khuyên he/she shouldnt expect something back...right?:)
so...whoever has the patience to read this please help me:)
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MissKnowItAll said:
I think he likes you. That's very clear.

The real thing is whether bạn should go for it.

bạn say he is a smoker and whatnot. If it were me, I'd take it very slowly. A friendship first etc. Smoking isn't a bad thing (drugs are complicated- let's cover that some other time), but bạn need to determine if he is 'safe'. And I don't mean an toàn, két an toàn as in 'cool'. I mean an toàn, két an toàn as in could he ever harm you?

Having đã đưa ý kiến that, it seems he was defending bạn with the thing with the teacher etc. I'd conclude there that he is rather gentle, but maybe protective. That was probably a good thing for him to do.

The main thing with this is that everything is on the fence. Those are my opinions, but bạn need to follow your gut and instinct.

Remember, if his 'bad' side does come out in a relationship, bạn MUST tell someone.
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woaw...gee....thanks that really helped me alot! *votes best answer*
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Thank you. ID
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klarissa03 said:
like whats the problem.? i.m sorry....but i dident understand
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ya ditto...
CullenProperty posted hơn một năm qua
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its ok:) I guess Im not a good explainer,my problem is tht I dont know what to do and I dont know if he likes me hoặc not;)
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ruby1000 said:
I think that he likes you. Hang out with him thêm become friends. I don't really understand the whole conversation thingy but if bạn offended him hoặc confused him in relation to your feelings then bạn should clear that up.
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Snerkie said:
Firstly; bạn shouldn't judge someone if they smoke hoặc do drugs, they can be the nicest person and that sort of stuff is a changable trait.
Secondly; bạn may be misinterpreting the "staring". He could potentially be stoned :\

Your young though so the important thing is if bạn do like him don't try and get into his "clique" of drugs and stuff just to get closer to him hoặc get him to like you. Just talk to him normally as bạn are, don't take notice of the staring and such, just talk and you'll figure out if he likes bạn thêm than a friend hoặc is just a defensive person. (also don't always believe your friends, they just want to convince bạn of something even if it's not true, they're not being mean just wanting bạn to be happy)
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FearlessSinger said:
He probably likes you. But don't get to close to him cuz the smoking and drugs are something bạn want to stay away from. Find out what he is REALLY like: What he does outside of school, if he has a girlfriend hoặc two(you know what I mean), if he's just a player, ect. Don't fall for him to easily cuz he could just be playing bạn in his stupid game. Watch out for him. And don't get pressured into doing drugs and stuff.
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