Im a 15 năm old theater girl. My life coulnt possibly CONTAIN thêm drama. I used to come here to escape it. not anymore.

When i first joined fanpop, i had no idea about the "community" of people on here. I had never been part of an internet community in my life, and i was absolutley blown away bởi the generosity, helpfulness, acceptance, kindness and good humor the all users seemed to eminate. I LOVED coming on because if i ever had a question, comment, diễn đàn topic, article, pick hoặc anything, i knew it would be viewed with an open mind. No fights, only intelligent discussions about what really mattered, the reason we all joined these spots in the first place, that reason being THE SHOW.

and not that im not grateful for it, but its the standard ive come to expect from the house-related spots i visit every day.

I havent seen these standards in a while, to be honest.

Yes, there has been some MAJOR fighting recently. But let me just say this is NOT the fault of the newbies. And i think its wrong to blame the gần đây atomosphere on them.

We were ALL newbies once. And if there fighting, its because there taking the example from those who are already here. Newbies coming in are setting there standards low, and frankly im really dissapointed and just generally shocked at the behavior ive seen.

If Fab has a problem with Bery, they should DISCUSS it maturley and calmley. thats why we have diễn đàn boards.

since when did we become so savage? this is a site for everyone to share there own opinions and i think we should be able to do it without worrying about being accused of not being a "True" huddy/house fan. The self-proclaimed "superfans" who blame the newbies arent the solution to the "newbie problem". There making it worse.


In conclusion, i think everyone, even if bạn dont feel like bạn did anything, should take a good step back and just look at the các bình luận youve made hoặc các bài viết youve written hoặc whatever in the past tháng hoặc so and try to walk in the other persons shoes. Even if bạn think there opinion is ridiculous, bạn dont have to say it hoặc get mad.

Im not naming names hoặc talking about anyone in particular, but all i gotta say is that im really dissapointed. :( i want the old fanpop back!