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Jamie86 said:
Does he act like that only to you? if he does, chances are high that he totally likes bạn but just doesn't know how to hiển thị that properly. When he has been sweet to bạn he's ashamed, because he thinks it'll make him look less tough, but when he's a jerk to bạn he feels bad because he doesn't want to make bạn feel bad... So, bạn have to hiển thị him that what you're feeling is constant. Try to find out if bạn like his character in general, not just the way he acts around you. How does he treat his friends, how does he act around other girls, does he buly people? If bạn think bạn like him after that, hiển thị him and don't be afraid to be rejected. Because he might react as a jerk at first, but that's just his defense mechanism kicking in. He's probably a guy that doesn't know how to handle feelings, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't like to be liked hoặc loved. So just stay nice to him, stay friendly, but hiển thị him that you're not going to take crap from him all the time, without making him think that bạn are rejecting him entirely. Make it clear that you're not disliking him, but his behaviour. Don't try to change who he is, just gently coach him in the love&feelings department ;) And hiển thị him that bạn like it when he acts nice to you. Guys like this aren't the model tình yêu experts, so even when bạn have let him know bạn like him and even when he has shown bạn the same he might not act as bạn wished he did. But that doesn't mean he doesn't have the feelings bạn wish he does, he just outs them differently. Hope this will help!
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