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littlelemon said:
Hmmm, I know how bạn feel. I'm in a similiar situation only my crush has a girlfriend already, so if it's any conselation to you, you're in an easier position than me. Ok, I think bạn should start bởi flirting mildly with him, and keep going, not pushing it until he finally starts to notice something's up. Then, I reckon bạn should start to flirt thêm strongly but still, not completely pushing it. Then, when he starts to become even thêm aware of your behaviour, bring it up another level. Keep going like this but don't go too far, hoặc you'll start to freak him out, and this always ends in Disater with a capital D. If it gets to a point where he seems to be avoiding you, it's time to stop. If you're careful enough, this won't happen, but if it does, allow things to cool down for a bit and keep a level head. Take things slowly with him until he starts to trust bạn again. When bạn think it's a good time to start flirting again, build it up as before, but don't push it as far as the last time. Smile loads, seem open and friendly and approachable. Be aware of your body language but not too aware. Be careful not to seem tense at anytime. Be playful, joke around a bit, perhaps flick your hair slightly, but don't make it obvious. If you're meant to be together, soon, he'll start sending out signals himself. If bạn think he's starting to like you, keep it up and keep smiling. After a while, if he hasn't told bạn how he feels, THEN bạn may tell him, but only if you're certain he likes bạn back. DON'T take too many risks, and I repeat, KEEP SMILING! Don't ever forget to smile. It's the most important part of flirting so don't let it slip. And last of all, good luck, I hope bạn get together, bạn sound like bạn really tình yêu him and I hope he'll find that he loves bạn too! But don't let it get to bạn if nothing happens, it won't be long till bạn find someone else who bạn tình yêu just as much if not more, and I can guarantee that he'll like bạn too.
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