I need help... and FAST!!!!! please help me!!!!!!!

ummm i dont know gust say no and he will under stand

I've been through this before too. It's really hard. I had a really hard time with this when it happened to me.

But sadly, bạn only have a few options. Accepting, as a pity date, hoặc rejecting.

The good thing about accepting is that bạn don't hurt his feelings, temporarily. Another good thing is that bạn are giving him a chance to grow on bạn in that way (although if you're already Những người bạn with him, I'm not sure how much room there really is if bạn already know you're not interested...) The bad thing about it is that bạn don't really want to do it, so it's not fun for you. Also, another bad thing is that it's leading him on, which leads to hurt feelings later on anyway.

The good thing about rejecting is that bạn get it over with, and if bạn do it correctly (meaning gently, not brutally) then bạn may still be able to save the friendship. The bad thing about rejecting is that bạn have to hurt his feelings. bạn want to be as gentle as possible, and let him know that bạn really like him as a friend, but no matter what he will be hurt.

So it's a hard decision. Either way, it's a really hard thing to do. :( I can already see that bạn care about him as a friend because bạn are so worried about hurting him. So my best Lời khuyên is to be as gentle as possible if bạn decide to reject him, and let him know that bạn really do like him as a friend. If bạn decide to accept just this once, then just be yourself around him, as awkward as it may feel, and if things get a little too far just keep it light and friendly with him while letting him know that bạn aren't ready to go that far.

Gosh, I'm sorry, this is going to be difficult for both of you.

My Lời khuyên is:

Saying 'yes' may seem like the easy thing to do, and it is but is it the RIGHT thing to do for bạn and your friendship with this guy?
Think about it, bạn may go to homecoming with him but "I don't want to be here with him" will be stuck in your head the whole night and bạn won't be able to enjoy it and it'll be awful.
Saying 'yes' may spare his feelings ... FOR NOW because if bạn go with him, and nothing clicks, then bạn won't WANT to ngày him, which is kind of the tiếp theo step and he'll be crushed and then he'll figure out that bạn went to the dance with him because bạn felt bạn had to.

So, just tell him "I'm so sorry, but I don't want to go to homecoming with you, I tình yêu bạn but not in that way, I don't want to spoil our friendship..." hoặc something along those lines but personalise it, so he knows bạn still want to be friends.
If bạn really don't want to go with him, say 'no'. It's the right thing to do although it may be the hardest, which often turns out to be the case.

If he's truly your friend, he will understand and still want to be in your life.

Good Luck! I hope I helped a little!

Why can't bạn just be honest with him? Just tell him that you'd feel weird going with him. bạn can still go with him, but not "with" him, if bạn know what I mean. bạn can go with a bigger group of friends, you'd still be hanging out with him, but it wouldn't be awkward for bạn hoặc anything.

Hope it works out :)

well, maybe bạn can find something different from "yes" and 'no" - I nean, maybe bạn can offer to spend the time in a different way, like going to the movie and telling him that bạn were looking phía trước, chuyển tiếp to see this movie for a long time. Can sound stupid. But maybe can help.
The other thing is, that I know for shure, that in such situation your feelings are the most important, because if bạn like him - you'll like everything, but if bạn don't - you'll be disgudted of yourself for a long time and you'll never forget it. So, I think, that bạn need to care about yourself in the in the first way, and how do bạn feel about it. Sorry if something isn't usefull. I hope you'll deal with it in the best way.

Bummer! Your in a tough situation.
The best Lời khuyên I can give is to NOT lie. And a pity ngày is kinda just that. Things could go terribly bad. bạn could go with him and TOTALLY give him the wrong impression-especially if he likes you. Also he could find out that bạn only went with him becuz bạn couldn't say no. And that could REALLY hurt. In fact, it would hurt ALOT thêm than rejection.
Who knows. IF bạn don't like that, then maybe bạn could say yes, and then invite a bunch of Những người bạn and make it a "group" date. ") Hope I helped. I really am awful at giving advice. "P
Yours,
Kay