If I had a quarter for each time someone on this club đã đưa ý kiến that line... “No one likes me.”, “I’m ignored.”, “I don’t fit in.”. No that really isn’t the case.

I’ve gone to the club activity of about five of the people who have đã đưa ý kiến this, and looked for times where they had been treated unfairly, hoặc been ignored, and usually that’s not the case. I’ve also noticed that most of the time the people who have đã đưa ý kiến these things are new, and/or don’t do stuff on the club often in the first place.

It takes time to find out if bạn want to be in a group hoặc not. And just because bạn aren’t instantly popular, it doesn’t mean people dislike you. And while I have seen quite a few of these people say this who have had run-ins with Mephilesthedark, Mephiles is not everyone. Just because one person snapped at you, it doesn’t mean the whole club is against you; it doesn’t even mean that one person is against you. I argue with people I’m Những người bạn with all the time, and they argue with each other, but that alone doesn’t, hoặc shouldn’t, make someone want to leave so quickly.

And if people ARE hating on bạn at first, are bạn really just going to roll over and give up? Apparently yes because I keep seeing all these spam các bình luận about it so often it hurts. When I started out on this club, people HATED me, and I was told many times to just stop and leave the club, but I didn’t and now I can honestly say I’m pretty successful in this club.

Think of it like you’re running for President. Just because it gets hard, all the support, and money used to help get bạn started is for naught if bạn aren’t willing to stick to it.

And then there’s the people that go “I’m leaving again,” “I’m back”, “I’m leaving.” HOW ABOUT bạn JUST DON’T SAY ANYTHING? No one is going to freak out over bạn being gone three days, coming back for three days, leaving again for three days, then coming back AGAIN, for three days. When you’re here, they’re happy, when you’re gone, they’ll wonder probably, but if you’re back in a week’s time it’s not a big deal. If bạn say “Sorry I can’t be on for a bit because *insert reason here*. I might be back in *insert amount here* days.” that’s completely fine, as long as bạn don’t overdo it.

Stick around if bạn want to stick around. Leave if bạn want to leave. But don’t post a bình luận every time bạn say so. And BEFORE bạn decide to, take at least a full ngày after wanting to leave each time bạn want to, to think up and go over if bạn actually want to go. And if bạn do leave, don’t xóa anything. No matter how much bạn might want to, hoặc how much bạn think it doesn’t matter, I can almost guarantee that bạn will regret it later. And other people who like what you’ve đã đăng might not want the stuff to disappear either. And above all, do NOT xóa your account, that is unless bạn want to re-fan ALL the clubs, and add EVERY SINGLE THING YOU’VE MADE BACK onto your notifications.


On a similar topic, I address those who vanish out of thin air, then don’t come back for quite a while. Now obviously I stand bởi that making a habit of notifying people if you’re going to be gone gets really annoying when bạn do it so often, but when bạn just go nowhere people get worried, hoặc they get annoyed.

Now before someone gets upset, this has nothing to do with situations where bạn can’t get onto a computer, hoặc the site, hoặc any other immediate reason that would keep bạn away, and it doesn’t have to do with it being instantaneous and bạn not knowing when it would happen. This is about the situations where when we find out what bạn were doing, it turns out these people were just chilling.

~Watching youtube
~got bored
~and of course MINECRAFT

I’ll admit that bạn don’t have to tell anyone what you’re doing, it’s your life, but it’s also common courtesy. When I find out that a person I was waiting to talk to about something, hoặc roleplay with, hoặc diễn đàn with, was gone just because they were having so much fun with Team Fortress 2, all I can think is “Well thanks for wasting my time!”

For me, I have my fun when I see that the club is slowed down, and little hoặc nothing is going on. I’ll spend about a half-hour hoặc so doing whatever, then come back to check up. If there’s still nothing happening, I’ll go back to what I was doing.

And if you’re going to be doing whatever for a long period of time, all bạn need to do so people don’t get upset after waiting for so long, is make a bình luận hoặc bài viết ONCE, listing the things you’re going to be doing, when bạn plan to do them, what times they usually happen, and how much time they might take up. And if bạn want to make sure no one’s left out, send it to a friend’s wall.

Again, bạn don’t have to do this, and these are all just suggestions; I hope everyone understands that if someone wants to just stop out of nowhere, disappear into Minecraft for a tháng (has happened), then come back like nothing’s happened, they can do it at their leisure, but to those people, it in no way makes bạn any less inconsiderate.


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