Picture this,
bạn just found this new roleplay called (for lack of imagination) “Roleplay of love, brought to bạn bởi Hormones”. And because romance roleplays are so được ưa chuộng (HORMONES!) bạn try it out. So your character falls in tình yêu hoặc whatever with another character. At the end they are either…
A.    A couple
hoặc B. an item.
So now you’re all like “Cool. Now my character has a love-interest.” So every time bạn rp with those two characters in mind, you’re lead on to think that your character is the love-interest, only to find out that when bạn make a di chuyển like proposing, hoặc future children, hoặc whatever, that character actually has a different love-interest with six other people’s characters.
So in short,
All the work/fun/planning/etc. bạn had in mind for them is now gone, because it doesn’t really matter.

PEOPLE! DO NOT DO THIS!
When bạn make a romance rp, when bạn make a normal rp, when bạn make any rp, IF bạn HAVE A CHARACTER HAVE LOVE-EMOTIONS TOWARDS ANOTHER PERSON’S CHARACTER, either
A.    First come first serve: The first person for this to happen to gets the relationship.
B.    Ask around to see who cares and who doesn’t, then decide from there.
hoặc C. Post at the end of the rp, hoặc in the mô tả something like “Note: This rp is just for fun. This will not affect my characters in any future rps, so unless bạn and I agree completely, our characters will not be together.”
Do not lead people on. If they think that your character and theirs are together because they got together in an rp, guess what, THEY ARE. Unless your character is a player, hoặc unless bạn did the whole “Note: This rp…” thing, then bạn ARE responsible. And if bạn wanted your character to get back together with a past love-interest, hoặc bạn had one planned already, DON’T MAKE THE RP WITH THAT CHARACTER!
This is why I made the Chemical tình yêu RP “CHEMICAL” Love. It dealt with FAKE love, not real love. This way, unless the other person actually wants a relationship, it’s not going to imply one in the future.

Another thing to point out is that WHEN bạn have a couple character, DO NOT just snip off the relationship, ESPECIALLY when it’s been put into print hoặc art, UNLESS bạn AND the other person BOTH agreed TOGETHER to separate the two characters. Believe it hoặc not, some of us actually have plans for what we’d like to see with a cross-over coupling. And WHEN bạn break it off, at LEAST give it the decency to do it before it’s already made into something solid, and/or make it into a break-up of the characters in a fan-fic hoặc an rp hoặc at the very least on a bình luận say something like “After Jerry ate hoa hồng pie, she broke up with him, so they aren’t a couple anymore”.

Next, PLEASE
PLEASE
PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE
DON’T
SPEED
IT
UP!
Sorry to upset Cybertheechidna, but this is an example I couldn’t not state.
Girl character: *trips on boy accidentally kissing him*
Boy character: *not bad face*
Girl: *tripping out*
And now for some reason, every other time they meet in an rp, they’re a couple? Unless bạn actually have the characters go “I tình yêu bạn *kiss Kiss snog*” hoặc SOMETHING that says “We’re a couple” They aren’t. DO NOT ASSUME.
When I have a cross-over couple, I don’t know about the rest of bạn guys, but I like to take it slow in most cases. Get the characters as friends, then PROGRESSIVELY get them into the ways of being a couple. If bạn just skip all that, it gets really boring really fast. If they only like each other, then that means there can be room for
•    Fighting for the girl/guy
•    Little funny arguments
•    CLOSER FRIENDSHIP
•    Finding out the dislikes and likes of both of them, so it’s not just “THE REAL SUPER POWER OF LOVE-WORK (Yes I know, Sonic Giải cứu thế giới line)”

FINALLY
The making of the out
OUT WITH THE MAKING OF THE OUT
GET IT OUT OF HERE!
Don’t get me wrong, in some cases kissing with characters can be very romantic, but when it’s all the time, every rp, what’s the point? Isn’t kissing supposed to be a special and meaningful thing, let alone ONLY AFTER YOU’RE MARRIED?
Le No Gusto snogging. kissing isn’t romantic when it’s
“I LOOOOOOVE bạn *kiss*”
“I LOOOOOOVE bạn *kiss back*”
“I LOOOOOOVE bạn BACK *kiss*”
*KISS Kiss MY KINGDOM FOR A KISS!*
And don’t even get me started on the parts where all of the sudden there’s a giường there (IT HAS HAPPENED) -_-


In short,
PLEASE!
I BEG OF YOU!
THINK THINGS THROUGH!
If you’re so anxious for romance, WATCH A ROMANCE MOVIE, hoặc get a companion.
And if bạn aren’t interested in a coupling of characters, DON’T MAKE THEM A COUPLE.

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