Why does tình yêu hurt? Can bạn be hurt and still love?

Real tình yêu doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real tình yêu is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much thêm bearable. tình yêu is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on ngọn lửa, chữa cháy and makes bạn do things bạn would’ve never done was it not for that other person. tình yêu blinds bạn and makes bạn see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time.

It’s the absence of tình yêu that hurts; it’s the falling out of tình yêu hoặc not having tình yêu hoặc not having reciprocal tình yêu that hurts.


Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again:

"I've đã đưa ý kiến before, tình yêu doesn't hurt, and if a man hits bạn once, he will hit bạn again." ~ Oprah Winfrey

There are lots of reasons why tình yêu hurts. Maybe bạn just broke up with someone and bạn still tình yêu them, hoặc maybe bạn haven't seen the one bạn tình yêu in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes bạn can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. tình yêu will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once bạn find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)

all the dang time.

I know tình yêu hurts and I know what it feels like.
I was in tình yêu with this guy whom I did tình yêu but he let lust ruin it and in a way he did abuse me slighty. I've felt worthless ever since and every time I look at him hoặc someone mentions him it opens up old wounds and I have to hold it together hoặc else i'd break down to the floor holding myself for support. Even though I'm with someone whom I want to spend the rest of my days with I still feel what I felt before and I dont think anything will ever change that. SO when bạn tình yêu expect pain.

so many guys lyk me...........but the guy i lyk,doesnt even bother to look at me hoặc even say hi.....if i smile at him, he makes a face.
it was when he kissed another girl, dat i found out he was already in luv with sum1 else ;(
i almost cry every night beacause of this.
did i HAVE to see them kiss? ;(

tình yêu hurts cause bạn can tình yêu someone and they will ignor u.

i dont know why but tình yêu hurts and bạn still can tình yêu and hurt, it may not be always true that tình yêu hurts but i'm speaking on experience tình yêu can hurt if it gets the chance.

tình yêu isnt tình yêu without hurt.

tình yêu is like magic because bạn are able to experience every emotion; happiness, frustration, pleasure and hurt. with out feeling pain, how do bạn no there is pain to feel. pain lets us know we have a reason for sorrow, a reason for life and , A REASON FOR LOVE

a person can break your tim, trái tim but bạn can still tình yêu them and its almost imposible to fogive and forget especialy for girls

bạn can be hurt and still love
i asked this guy out but never got and answer
this girl whos supposed 2 be 1 on of my best Những người bạn got dunped and 2 weeks later asked the guy i just asked out
and he đã đưa ý kiến yes
:'(

If I like someone and they hurt me i don't forgive them because if they break my tim, trái tim it still hurts but only if i really liked them...

Loving people hurts because bạn tình yêu them

tình yêu hurts cuz u use ur tim, trái tim to feel and theres noway to bounce back from a broken heart

tình yêu hurts because when it doesnt hurt, its the best feeling in the world...so there has to be something to even out all that good :)

ugh!sometimes i hate love!really hurts.
once i started to cry cause my boyfreind
kissed another girl...:(

i know tình yêu dose hurt and yes u can be still in love

Sometimes tình yêu can hurt because bạn feel bad
things and bạn tình yêu the person so much, bạn don't
understand how to deal hoặc control the things you
feel for them.
Of course bạn can still tình yêu even when you're
hurt. If bạn really tình yêu the person, bạn can live
and get through really tough times bạn experience
and still love.

tình yêu hurts. Period. But tình yêu can happen anyway, that's what makes it wonderful.

Yes bạn can still tình yêu and hurt at the same time. But get the hurt out of you, because it is not good 4 u. bởi your problem, something serious is keeping u from living. But their's always hope and u will tình yêu again.

There're so many reasons why tình yêu hurts. First of all: When bạn tình yêu someone and he/she dosen't tình yêu bạn back.
The một giây most painful thing in tình yêu when your lover goes with an other boy/girl and lies about it.
The third is the break-up. When bạn don't think anyone but him/her and cries very much.

I was in tình yêu but I didn't feel any of these options.

tình yêu hurts when bạn tình yêu someone but they can not hoặc will not tình yêu bạn back.

anyone can do anything but it is hard to tình yêu again after bạn have been hurt

tình yêu is a mixture of alot of things and one of them is hurt and pain if u want to expirence tình yêu then u have to go trough the pain tình yêu gives u............ yes u can be in pain and still tình yêu that is only called true tình yêu if u forget ur tình yêu becoz its too painfull then u cant call it love...

tình yêu does hurt and u feel that pain in ur tim, trái tim until u find someone new

Of course bạn can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of tình yêu to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to tình yêu no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :)

and Thank God!

no idea..never dated before!!!

Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes..
Is what happens in relationship.
And sometimes, it's just too much to continue..
Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up..
But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To tình yêu them still..
Because bạn both know... bạn never gonna be strong without each other!
Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait!
and bạn neither living nor dead without them!
bạn will give them power to destroy you, but..
bạn trust them once again... not to hiển thị u How painful tình yêu can be!

Yeah one can be hurt and tình yêu again coz Mất tích tình yêu must be forgotten no matter how hard it may appear

Y dose living zones one hurts so bad

true tình yêu doesn't hurt, it breaks down barriers, and it can change many things, if we are willing to listen to your heart. im glad u r able to forgive, as u try to mend ur tim, trái tim , but it obviously wasn't ment to b , n u r very wise to have made the positive step, the mature step * so try not to think too much, have some time for u, go out with friends, buy urself something, give ur self a new hairdo. true tình yêu is being strong enough to b able to let it , hoặc them go, it may hurt like no tomo, but if it was true tình yêu it will b back, but u will b wiser. a holiday may b on the cards. for tình yêu takes a lot of work, but from two, that are equal, tình yêu is a language all of its own, true tình yêu no words r req, it clicks, so stand proud, your tim, trái tim does know love. with luck u will find ur soul mate, but let the past go.u r strong enough to let it go, so blooming well done, proud of bạn * peace be with you)