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The guy I have a major crush on has a girlfriend now. What should I do?

I have liked him since last summer. He is sweet and smart and cute and popular. He treats girls very well. But, just when I started to think he liked me, and just when I figured that I would have a chance, he gets a girlfriend. I cried to my friend when I found out. Plus, he is in a different grade, so in the school năm we never have classes together. I never got a chance to tell him how much I care...IDK what I should do! Help!
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I have a similar case and IDK what to do 2...
Aglaia posted hơn một năm qua
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me too. to Aglaia
summerlynn1978 posted hơn một năm qua
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I would just tell him and see what he says hoặc I probally would just wait till they break up I do not even know even though I have to deal with 2 boyfriends but my 1st one had a girlfriend till the ngày he was new till the 3weeks till school was out then he asked me and I đã đưa ý kiến yes so we are still dating but I do not really trust him because it is the summer but yeah I am so sorry if this does not help bạn but that is all I had to say cause I do not want to talk about my một giây boyfriend so good luck and like I đã đưa ý kiến I am sorry if this do not help bạn
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IsabellaAzuria said:
Well try to tell him what bạn feel about him, don't try to force anything though. Just do it bởi a letter, through the internet hoặc cellphone message. If he really likes you, he will tell bạn and leave his current gf for bạn BUT bạn may not insist if he tells bạn that he is happy with his girlfriend. In that case anything bạn would try to do to wreck his relationship with the girl would make him dislike you. In a case in which he would betray his girlfriend with bạn and tell bạn he'll leave her soon, don't fall for that. Either he loves bạn and leaves her hoặc he just doesn't. I wish bạn the best of luck for that. Even if he doesn't like bạn this way, I'm sure bạn will find someone who will tình yêu you.
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that is a great ansewer and I agree with bạn
22478 posted hơn một năm qua
xBellaxEwardx21 said:
Ok, My bestfriend has almost the same problem alittle diffrent thoguh. He has a girlfriend there is not to much bạn can do about that. bạn dont want to break them up even if bạn like him alot. The first thing bạn want to do is talk to this guy. Tell him that bạn do have feelinfgs for him, tell him your willing to wait it out and see how he feels. bạn never want to pressur someone cause then they totaly wont like bạn back. After bạn guys talk i would lay low and give him some không gian to think. If he comes back and says he has feeling for bạn to, then wait it out and see where things go with him and his gf. If he says that he dosnt like you, well let it go. But i know how hard it is to let it go, always keep a foot in. Becuase bạn never know, he might be hiding his feelings cause he is scared. Most guys can not express thiuer feelings beacuse even though its hard to belive. Guys have feelings too! LOL – Liên minh huyền thoại so jsut see how things go! ZTell him bạn ned 2 talk to hima bout it cause apprently bạn both like eachother as freiends hoặc as thêm then friends. bạn two need to work things out. Cause mabye he dose like bạn but he thinks bạn dont like him and thats why he choose to go out with someone else. But i know how hard it can be to talk to a guy. Im a girl too! bạn need to talk to him in person ,that is always the best way. It is the hardest but best way. bạn ahve to startoff bởi telling him how bạn feel. Then ask him if he ever did have feeling for you. He might lie to ur face, being it is face to face conctat and guys can get pretty....ummmm how do bạn say embarssed with that. But bạn jsut have to come straight out and tell him how bạn feel. He might not resepnd the way bạn want him to but he will think your Công chúa tóc xù and amaazing for talking to him in person and not over text hoặc email ;) even on the phone will work after bạn have worked things out. Add me and tell me how things go :)
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GOOD JOB
22478 posted hơn một năm qua
Lunatic said:
Wait until his current relationship finishes, then tell him how bạn feel.

DO NOT flirt while he is still with someone. Would bạn like it if some girl started flirting with your boyfriend? (A: No. bạn wouldn't.)

Obviously, since he is going out with her, he likes her. Even if it makes bạn miserable, bạn should respect that she makes him happy. (Isn't it just hell?)
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that is right
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LabraLege said:
được ưa chuộng guys will never admire some girl crying for him :) don't bother.
But if bạn want to have him bạn need to be diffirent from his girlfriend. To get his attention. I don't know, maybe bạn should just change your hair color to màu hồng, hồng (it helped my sister) hoặc do something that he would never dare to do...
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she shouldn't have to change herself for a guy. And she shouldn't have to be better then hia grilfriend. She should just beherself! He is Những người bạn with her cause she is herself and apprently he likes her too!
xBellaxEwardx21 posted hơn một năm qua
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It's not about changing for HIM!
LabraLege posted hơn một năm qua
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yeah I agree with LabraLege it is not about changing yourself for a guy so just tell him how bạn feel and don't do what anyone else tells bạn just say what bạn believe in and WHO bạn believe in
22478 posted hơn một năm qua
Eclipse said:
I would ask him if he knows that u like him hoặc if he likes u and hes just tryfing to make u jelous cause u no how ego centeric guys can be but anyway, i would ask him and go from that.
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That is very true 2, guys liek to make girls jelous! ALOT! haha
xBellaxEwardx21 posted hơn một năm qua
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that is SOOOOOO true because my cousin told my boyfriend that I a dating NOW that I liked him and he đã đưa ý kiến I know so we have been going out for about a tháng now I think I am not sure it was 3weeks before school was out but I tình yêu him with all my tim, trái tim but on the other hand one of my brothers Những người bạn asked me out so now I have to deal with both of them BUT I tình yêu my first baby first I don't rally like the other one but sorry I agree with bạn Eclipse
22478 posted hơn một năm qua
peterslover said:
How long cách đây did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do bạn really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do bạn now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that bạn care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, hoặc anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
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 How long cách đây did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do bạn really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do bạn now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that bạn care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, hoặc anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
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About 2/3 weeks ago...
DolphinLover97 posted hơn một năm qua
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well bạn could still go for it don't be scared if she gets mad it is ok because. I know someone who is going to go to 7th grade with me tiếp theo năm and she wants to fight me because I am dating my boyfriend and she use to like him so it is ok
22478 posted hơn một năm qua
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GO FOR IT
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cheery_blossom said:
Wait it out, flirting nonstop (subtly) and catch him on the rebound.
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Why would bạn want to just be the rebound chick while he is still getting over his ex?
Lunatic posted hơn một năm qua
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no bad idea
22478 posted hơn một năm qua
sweet_n_silly said:
That happens to me alot. I'm not sure if this is the best thing to do, but I just wait it out. I flirt a little bit, when his gf isn't around of course, and hope they breakup happily. Beware of the gf though!!!! If she even starts to get suspicious, pull back. other than that, don't try to be the one to throw a wrench in their relationship and be patient. When things go sour, which they most likely will, be ready to catch him. That's when the hook drives the deepest.
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xin chào me too want to be my người hâm mộ
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Black_cat_ said:
there are a few ways to deal with this, 1 is 2 tell him how u feel and dont expect anything from him, wait till he breaks up with her and tell him (is risky i did it and it turned out she liked me b4 she got a bf), hoặc hide ur feelings till they go away. all of the choices r hard and most of them dont lead to anything. ur best bet 2 me is 2 just tel him right now how u feel and just see what happenes hun, otherwise ul just be waiting and either hopeing hoặc not knowing
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ok????
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Twili12 said:
Hey, it's okay if this happens to you. You're not alone on this one. Well, what I would do is, just wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. It depends what age bạn are at. Like, if bạn are not in high school yet, them breaking up is HIGHLY likely. But, if bạn do think this boy may have had hoặc does have feelings for you, he might realize that you're the one he truly likes. I'm sorry if this doesn't help you, but feel free to send me a message.For now, just try and talk to him nicely when ever bạn see him. Act lady like, polite, smart, and ask him some questions, don't let yourself do all the talking lol! But I'm sure bạn will be okay. Ask him how his relationship is doing. If he points out some of his girlfriends' flaws, (ex. so and so shops too much. So and so talks about herself too much. Etc.) then try to hiển thị him that you're not like that. Well, that's a summery about how I would try to go at this situation, but if bạn still have some questions, feel free to message me. I'm sorry if this doesn't help. Good luck!
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