self-esteem problems....

Stop comparing yourself to people!
Your Những người bạn try to make your self-esteem grow because they don't want to see bạn upset. No one does!
I'm like that too sometimes. Sometimes I think that person's stronger/funnier/more outgoing/smarter/prettier/skinny than me.
But I know that my Những người bạn don't care if I were the most boringest person on earth. They wouldn't care if I was stupid/ugly/anything negative. My Những người bạn wouldn't judge me. And if your Những người bạn are trying to help bạn they are not judging bạn either.
Stop crying yourself to sleep. Just know that your Những người bạn and family are there for bạn no matter how bad/ugly/stupid/fat/anything bạn are! (not that I'm saying your any of those things)

And your not pathetic! Stop being so negative about yourself! Stop judging yourself! It's about what bạn think of yourself. Think if that weight is what bạn want. hoặc if that's how bạn want to cut your hair. It's all about what bạn want. Not your friend/boyfriend/parents/siblings. It's what bạn want.

bạn shouldnt hate your self. maybe bạn should try useing make up so bạn can stop thinking that your ugly. just be your self. i realy dont know what els to say this is a dificuld and hard situation. sorry

like nafela đã đưa ý kiến this is a really hard situation but one that everyone goes through at least somewhat so your not completly alone i too went through this where i wish i could be thêm like someone else and always wondered what people though of me and though i still do sometimes i try to be myself remember bạn are your harshest critic and most people already accept bạn for who bạn are even though bạn don't know it instead of seeing the negatives think about all the positive characteristics that bạn have i'm sure its alot and make a danh sách and then everytime bạn feel like bạn wanna change hoặc feel down look at the danh sách also maybe talk to your family and ask them to write a note on how special bạn are and go back to it when your feeling down but don't doubt bạn are special once bạn start loving yourself so will others i know its hard i've been there and its something that i work on i try not to allow other peoples view of me diminish my view of myself i try to just be me and let myself know its okay to be shy and different thats what makes us special and just know your very special i hope this helps message me anytime if bạn need help hoặc just wanna chat :)

bạn shall follow the advices the rest of the những người hâm mộ gave bạn and try to feel better.If it doesn't help bạn then bạn should see a psychiatrist cause maybe bạn need medical help.I'm not calling bạn a psycho hoặc a sick person,just I think it's something like depression.I have self-esteem problems too but not that bad.I'm not telling this to bạn to compare me with bạn so I can feel better but to help bạn and I'm not saying bạn that you're pathetic even if bạn need medication it's not your fault.I want to support you!

bạn sound like a rather sweet person who is just going through a really hard time. if i new who bạn where i would give bạn a hug. every one is different based on many different factors and bạn shouldnt be the only person bạn can be and that is you. the world we live in now and days is so focused on looks and who is "cool". every one is original and that makes them great not bad. if only people could focus thêm on people on the inside and not judge people it would be easier for bạn and others. i have been told for years that i have an ugly big nose and recently after counceling i am learning to learn its not the out side that matters. i hope i helped bạn :) if not sorry.

My mum told me something years cách đây and she was right and its my khẩu hiệu on here and that's be yourself don't be a sheep. The only person bạn need to think about is you. bạn are the most important person bạn know. Everyone else comes second. That may seem selfish but when bạn feel as bạn do bạn need positive thinking. This may seem hard but sit down and write a danh sách of positives in your life good things bạn have done hoặc do. Then write a danh sách of things bạn want to do. Give yourself a goal each tháng hoặc week hoặc even năm but something to aim for and when bạn get that done go for the tiếp theo one. make the first few easy to do and then a few not so easy and one hoặc two that will mean a bit of work to get there.