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I don't know what to do...........

ok well its gonna sound kinda stupid...
Theres this lady i know REALLY well. i guess u can say shes a family member...But like every time i see her (twice a week), she sees me draw during my free time. But the annoying thing is is tht she ALWAYS says ''UGH THIER SO BAD'' and stuff like that to MY FACE. Even now she even says ''if ur gonna draw those things then leave the rooom.'' then ill be like ''why?'' then she says tht she doesnt wanna see it. its irritating! Sure its cartoons, but she knows that im not like her son thats this professional at drawing people's faces. And she gets thease unrealistic fantasies and says that i shoud be ''perfect''

and when i confront her (i try not to sound mean but it still is) my mom just says ''watch it'' hoặc does absolutely nothing. and im sick of it..what shud i do? i cnt put up with this....
 theanimemaster posted hơn một năm qua
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chickencheese said:
Well, if bạn can see her at all without your mum being there, then just say to her calmly that bạn don't like the things she saying and would like her so stop. If bạn can't, then speak to your mum privately and say that she's really insulting bạn and you'd like her to sort it out. If neither of these are possible, speak to someone else- your dad, and older sibling, maybe even a teacher if nothing else works.

Good luck
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thanks for the help...ive spoken to my sibling about this because now it has become an official rule..but she doesnt seem to get it either :/
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ling15 said:
First, if i want to help bạn ... i have to think that the problem is mine .... so, my Lời khuyên is .... : If that person makes u get "Unwell" with Yourself, don't use bad words against her cuz that would make the problem worst, and we don't want that. Talk about the problem with Your mom hoặc some other person of your confidence, if that didn't work, then talk personaly, face to face with the lady, and ask her " Do bạn have a problem with my Drawing??" if the answer is "yes" ask her why .... if its have something between he's sons drawing, tell her that u and him aren't the same, he's a Professional and he's way to old. He has thêm years of practise on drawint. She has to addmit bạn are a great Drawer, almost anybody draws like that (at your age of course). I hope i can Help You!
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Prawls8612 said:
Well if I were bạn I'd say in a nice and calm tone, "Please stop making bad các bình luận on my pictures. I know I'm not perfect but bạn don't have to make sure I know that bởi commenting harshly to my face!" I would try to be nice about it but if she keeps saying mean things then say something like, "If bạn keep harshly commenting on my pictures, I'm going to bình luận on your house!" (or cooking hoặc something bạn don't like about her)
Maybe bạn should try to talk to your mum about it too if bạn feel comfortable talking about it to her.
I know how bạn feel about the whole "perfect" thing but as long as bạn have fun drawing and bạn think that bạn draw good pictures then bạn should feel proud of yourself because bạn are doing something that makes bạn happy.
:)
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thank bạn ^^
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Your welcome!
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Me_Iz_Here said:
Install hidden cameras, wait until it's happened a lot of times, and hiển thị people.

jk.

say to her "I don't care about what bạn think, I don't have to be perfect, and I'm fine with the way I draw."
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Jakemulliken said:
What bạn should do is try to talk to your mom about it and tell her how it makes bạn feel. bạn could just try to talk to that lady and say xin chào what bạn are saying is not cool...it really hurts me a lot when bạn say that to me. I feel like bạn are my family but right now i don't feel like bạn are because family do not make fun of their own members ideas, drawings. If not then give me her email and i will write to her.
Hope that helps some
Love,
Jake
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