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Okay, so I've been Những người bạn with this guy for four years. He's been bullied pretty much all of his life, and I've always stuck bởi his side. Even when people made fun of me for hanging out with him, I didn't care. We've always had this deep connection, and we loved each other like brother and sister.

Recently, these girls have been harassing him. Telling him to kill himself and saying he did things in which he didn't. I helped him through this rough patch, and it was emotional for both of us.

About two days after this happened, he slowly stopped responding to my texts. And then, he stopped responding overall. I thought he was just busy, but it turned out he was texting everyone but me. My Những người bạn would ask him about me, and when they did he just would ignore the câu hỏi and/or not respond.

A ngày hoặc two later, I was on the bus, and he sat with another kid. The kid asked him about me, and the guy looked straight at me and đã đưa ý kiến "we've never talked before." It honestly crushed me, and now I can't stand to hear his voice hoặc see him around.

Why do bạn think he did this? We haven't talked ever since, and I don't feel like he wants to make it up at all I (niether do I, really). Any Lời khuyên from the fanpop community?
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Riku114 said:
bạn should probably confront him yourself about it and make sure he is okay with his problems first. This might be a branch off from it, so dont throw him away and hate him so quickly. People who have problems, may it be genetic, psychological, hoặc scars from trauma, tend to do things that might not be the wisest.

Though some reasons I could come up with is.....

1) Someone made bạn seem worthless than the damage bạn would cause for him
a: This may be because bạn gained a bad reputation and people hated him because of bạn and thats what they said
b: It was a bargain of sort
c: Someone đã đưa ý kiến a lie to him about bạn that made bạn seem less than what bạn should be
d: A threat was placed
e: bạn became 'bad for his reputation'

2) Its the drag on from something psychological/traumatizing
a: Maybe bạn remind him of something bad
b: Maybe bạn bring back bad memories of the past despite being the nguồn of the good

3) Something bạn did bothered him hoặc vice versa
a: Something uncomfortable. Maybe he ended up liking you, maybe he thought bạn ended up liking him.
b: Maybe bạn became too close
c: Maybe trust issues

4) He is trying to start anew
a: bạn are part of his past that must be dropped.
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Wish bạn the best of luck though
Riku114 posted hơn một năm qua
Haonako said:
bạn need to pull through and if neither of bạn wants to make up then leave him like bạn dont need him tf
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Thats kind of harsh. Especially for a friend of 4 years that powered through so much
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pablopj said:
bạn say there people who been mean to him, there's a chance they lied to him about bạn so he would stay away from you, the best thing to do in a case like this is to talk with him, find a way to get to him and ask, if they lied something like bạn hate him, then he can be feeling bad, maybe even close to ending his life, if bạn want to know, bạn have to be the one to talk
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Dreamtime said:
damn
probably someone đã đưa ý kiến bad things about bạn to him to make him avoid you
face him just tell him hear him out there must be a mistake here
hope things goes well for you
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