I have been really obsessed with Damon and Elena since I saw the Vampire Diaries. I tình yêu everything about them. Every single scene with them in it, every word they say, every look they give to each other. Basically the những người hâm mộ of Vampire Diaries either root for Stefan and Elena hoặc Damon and Elena. I have to say I am a totall Delena fan. There are number of reasons why I am hoping that these two will end up being together. I gotta admit that at the beginning I was a Stelena fan. My friend suggested me to start watching this show. Before I started watching it, I went on Youtube to see short video from the Vampire diaries to get a better idea what the plot was like. I watched Stefan and Elena tình yêu scene and I loved it. I felt like oh, these two people are meant to be together... while watching those video I found out that there was another character called Damon who also was in tình yêu with Elena. Even though I thought Damon was hotter than Stefan, I was really annoyed to see that Elena had feelings towards Damon too. I was like, wait, Stefan and she are so cute together, I hope Damon doesn't ruin their relationship. As I started watching the hiển thị I absolutely hated Damon and I was convinced that he was a really bad guy who didn't deserve Elena's tình yêu and understanding. In short, I loved Stefan and Elena. The reason why I told bạn my story is that Stelena những người hâm mộ often blame Delena shippers that they tình yêu Damon only because he's hotter. This isn't true. When I didn't know much about the plot and I briefly saw some parts of the show, I felt like yes, Damon is hot but Stefan is a better guy so I hope he will kick Damon's ass. I never chose Damon over Stefan based on his external appearence and because he had prettier eyes than Stefan. So the reason why I want Elena to pick Damon has nothing to do with the fact that Damon is so good-looking. No, not at all.

As I continued watching the hiển thị it seemed to me that when Elena and Stefan met each other they somehow convinced themselves that they were meant to be together. Elena had just Mất tích her parents and felt miserable, so Stefan was a person who came to her at a right time when she needed a new friend who she could talk to. Stefan did make her feel better so I think she kinda confused her gratitude towards Stefan with love. Stefan himself felt also happy, because he found the girl who looked exactly like Katherine (who he loved over a hundred year) but she was thêm kind-hearted and less selfish.

But then something happened. Damon came across. Damon's appearance proved that Elena and Stefan's relationship was incomplete. They seemed to be a perfect couple at the beginning of the story. But when Damon came across, it changed things. Damon showed up and made us realize that Elena/Stefan tình yêu was kinda boring, lifeless...Elena and Stefan's relationship has been steady most of the time, no ups and downs, no excitement. They were like "Oh we believe in tình yêu from the first sight and we'll be together forever." Of course Stefan/Elena have been through a lot and Stefan has proved that he cares for Elena, but I have never seen him being in tình yêu in such a desperate, reckless way as Damon.

I tình yêu it how Damon took babysteps to get a better person, to bring out his humanity back, how he tried to deserve Elena's respect. He actually tried to change, Elena gave him a reason to stop being a cold-hearted killer vampire. The beginning of their relationship and the way it developed is so much thêm complicated than Elena and Stefan's. Elena hated and liked Damon at the same time, she didn't believe him and trusted him at the same time, he was irritating her and attracting her at the same time. They teased each other, they argued, they laughed together, they fought and still managed to have fun. I have seen undeniable chemistry between these two. Somehow I came to conclusion that only one Delena scene with Damon doing his "eye thing" and Elena smiling cheerfully hoặc teasing him was so much enjoyable and cute to watch than ten other scenes of Stefan and Elena hugging and kissing each other. Elena always seems happier and perkier with Damon than with Stefan. Seeing so many fights, fun moments, understanding and a stronger connection between them makes me realize that there's a true tình yêu right there.

I don't blame Elena for pushing Damon away even though I am Damon fan. If I were Elena, I would have done the same. For a long time I wouldn't even let myself admit that I was inlove with my boyfriend's brother. Elena is falling for Damon harder and harder, her feelings for Damon are way stronger but she keeps convincing herself that "it's Stefan and it's always going to be Stefan" because she cannot just stop being with her boyfriend and di chuyển on to his brother. Deep down Elena feels guilty for being attracted to Damon this is why she's desperately trying to push Damon away and repeats over and over again that she loves Stefan. I'd like to ask Stelena những người hâm mộ why do bạn guys think that Elena and Stefan are so perfect together? bạn can tell that Elena isn't sure about her feelings towards Stefan, if she was she wouldn't have to remind herself so often that Stefan is her only true love. In the third season we've seen how attached she's to Damon and how jealous she gets when she sees him flirting with Rebekah. If she was so in tình yêu with Stefan why did she start falling for Damon? Maybe the reason why she keeps trying to save Stefan from Klaus is not love? It seems that both Damon and Elena are trying to get Stefan back because they're feeling guilty. Stefan sacrificed himself to save his brother and Damon owes him his life . And Elena cannot just let herself be happy with Damon while she knows that Stefan is in danger and being used bởi Klaus. If Damon and Elena forget about Stefan and admit what they feel towards each other that will be probably the most selfish thing to do in their lives.

I just found a really cool quote online: "If bạn tình yêu two people at the same time, choose the một giây one, because if bạn really loved the first one bạn wouldn't have fallen for the second." I do agree with this. If Elena really truly loved Stefan, why is she falling for Damon? Why isn't she sure about what she feels?

I have heard a lot of times that Stefan is a safer choice for Elena, that Stefan deserves her more. OK, let's say that it's true. Well, unfortunately tình yêu has nothing to do with logic, bạn don't usually fall in tình yêu with someone because he deserves bạn hoặc Luật sư đấu trí bạn more. tình yêu is the most unpredictable feeling of all. bạn might actually end up dating a guy who is totally wrong for you. bạn know that he isn't the best choice hoặc a safer choice, but he's the one bạn need, he's the one who completes you. We cannot control who we should fall in tình yêu with. And bởi the way other world famous sách about tình yêu stories are full of characters who fell in tình yêu with someone who they weren't even supposed to look at. Forbidden love-that's what is so amazing....So if Elena actually ends up being with Damon, it's maybe not the safest and logical choice for her but tình yêu isn't about playing it safe. I tình yêu that episode when Elena talks about Rebekah: "She loves blindly and recklessly even if that consumes her." It's like she's talking about herself and Damon. Damon loves her blindly and recklessly too, and I am sure deep down Elena feels the same...This kind of tình yêu is thêm real and natural to me than all that overrated sweet relationship between Elena and Stefan.

Somewhere online I read that Delena needs to happen, so Stelena is an endgame. Well, if the producers are actually gonna make this happen, I will probably end up hating this TV show. How's that gonna work out? Elena had sex with Stefan, now she decides to make out with Damon and at last she makes up her mind "Oh, guess what, Stefan was better.. screw Damon, I want my trước đó boyfriend back." That's disgusting I think... Either Delena needs to happen and be the endgame, hoặc it shouldn't happen at all.

As far as I know LJ Smith got fired because she was making too many Delena scenes. This is making it obvious that producers, publishers hoặc whoever they are want Stelena to be the endgame. If Stelena is really the endgame, that will make me really sad but honestly I cannot wait till the Vampire Diaries comes to an end. Don't get me wrong, I tình yêu it, but I am tired of waiting for years. Eventually sách and the hiển thị need to come an end. This tình yêu tam giác is killing me, because the tình yêu and relationships between Damon/Elena/Stefan is so painfuly slow...I know that Stelena has a lot of những người hâm mộ ( I used to be one of them once), but I am sure Delena has more. I don't know what's gonna happen to an end but I want the hiển thị creators to read carefully what những người hâm mộ think, what they want and then decide.

I am sorry I made bạn read this, I had to get these thoughts out of my head. And sorry if my English wasn't that great... I learned English as my third language and I struggled for hours to write this... I'd appreciate to hear all your các câu trả lời and thoughts. Thank you.