If your little brother does something that bạn don’t like, bạn don’t keep your mouth shut about it, right? Of course not! bạn tell him straight out that he did something bạn didn’t like and to cut it out. And while we don’t advocate talking to your partner in the same way you’d talk to your little brother, the message is the same: bạn have to tell your partner what you’re thinking. bạn can’t expect him/her to be a mind reader—and they can’t expect bạn to read THEIR mind either. Telling your partner that bạn want them at opening night of the play you’re in (even though you...