Hi, everyone! Paul here, and I have something I want to admit. I have been feeling these things for quite some time, and I haven't told anyone. I didn't tell anyone, because I wanted to be sure that's what I was really feeling. I am not ashamed, which is why I am publicly getting this off my chest.
First of all, I am asexual. I've had some casual relationships. I never talked about them, because I didn't want anyone to be disappointed if they didn't work out. I knew I wasn't straight. I've known that since I was sixteen. Still, I didn't really identify with gay, bisexual, hoặc anything like that. Any time I've been in a romantic relationship, I never felt sexual attraction hoặc desire, not even a little bit.
I have since realized that my relationship with Antonia is thêm than friendship. It is platonic and non-romantic, but we care for each other in a thêm than friend way. When I confessed my feelings over the weekend, she told me that our relationship is a queer-platonic relationship. It is defined as a relationship that is platonic and non-romantic, but it goes beyond what most would consider friendship.
I had wondered if my lack of sexual attraction and desire was the fact that I hadn't found the right person, but that's not so. There is nothing wrong with me. Antonia and I tình yêu each other, and we want to be together in our way, and there's no mistake about that. I never was ashamed of Antonia, and I most certainly am not ashamed to admit that I tình yêu her.
Well, that's about it. I don't expect anyone here to understand this, but I do ask that bạn please respect it.
Peace and love,
Paul
First of all, I am asexual. I've had some casual relationships. I never talked about them, because I didn't want anyone to be disappointed if they didn't work out. I knew I wasn't straight. I've known that since I was sixteen. Still, I didn't really identify with gay, bisexual, hoặc anything like that. Any time I've been in a romantic relationship, I never felt sexual attraction hoặc desire, not even a little bit.
I have since realized that my relationship with Antonia is thêm than friendship. It is platonic and non-romantic, but we care for each other in a thêm than friend way. When I confessed my feelings over the weekend, she told me that our relationship is a queer-platonic relationship. It is defined as a relationship that is platonic and non-romantic, but it goes beyond what most would consider friendship.
I had wondered if my lack of sexual attraction and desire was the fact that I hadn't found the right person, but that's not so. There is nothing wrong with me. Antonia and I tình yêu each other, and we want to be together in our way, and there's no mistake about that. I never was ashamed of Antonia, and I most certainly am not ashamed to admit that I tình yêu her.
Well, that's about it. I don't expect anyone here to understand this, but I do ask that bạn please respect it.
Peace and love,
Paul
Since today is Paul's birthday, I thought I would leave a special birthday message for him. A card couldn't possibly say everything I want to say, so here it goes.
Paul, we met on fanpop nearly six years ago. From that ngày on, bạn have shown me lots of tình yêu and kindness. bạn have always shown me everything a true friend should be.
I admire the way bạn stand up for your Những người bạn and the fact that bạn think so highly of your best friend, Antonia. bạn have helped me to believe that there are still good people in the world, and bạn are one of them.
Thank bạn for your friendship and all the laughter bạn have được trao me and everyone else here. I wish bạn many thêm years of friendship and laughter. Happy Birthday, Paul! I tình yêu you.
-Kayla
Paul, we met on fanpop nearly six years ago. From that ngày on, bạn have shown me lots of tình yêu and kindness. bạn have always shown me everything a true friend should be.
I admire the way bạn stand up for your Những người bạn and the fact that bạn think so highly of your best friend, Antonia. bạn have helped me to believe that there are still good people in the world, and bạn are one of them.
Thank bạn for your friendship and all the laughter bạn have được trao me and everyone else here. I wish bạn many thêm years of friendship and laughter. Happy Birthday, Paul! I tình yêu you.
-Kayla