well, tình yêu is a feeling we can't help having. its like this big bright hole that bạn suddenly find urself falling into.the light is blinding your eyes and bạn can't see anything. bạn feel like everything has changed. and then your eyes adapt and so do you. bạn open your eyes and suddenly this whole new place pops out. everythings the same but different. suddenly the parking lot in front ur school looks like heaven. the stpid lamp post bạn used to kick so often looks like an angel, the gods messenger. love, the slight touch of it changes everything.. bạn find urself smiling alone, Daydreaming a lot even fantasizing.. it makes bạn a better person.. although i'm not saying that tình yêu is a necessary boon for us. all i can say is bạn need to drop into the hole to find the light...