Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay hoặc bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors hoặc feelings they have make them gay hoặc bi.
But really, asking other people to tell bạn whether hoặc not bạn are gay hoặc straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what bạn do every day. It's up to bạn to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves bạn feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered bởi you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who bạn are. Don't let anyone convince bạn that bạn should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on bạn and tell bạn who bạn are! Only bạn know how bạn feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, hoặc anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay hoặc straight. Many struggle with it for years hoặc even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled hoặc are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, bởi no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this bài viết has helped bạn discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who bạn are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, hoặc anything else!
But really, asking other people to tell bạn whether hoặc not bạn are gay hoặc straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what bạn do every day. It's up to bạn to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves bạn feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered bởi you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who bạn are. Don't let anyone convince bạn that bạn should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on bạn and tell bạn who bạn are! Only bạn know how bạn feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, hoặc anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay hoặc straight. Many struggle with it for years hoặc even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled hoặc are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, bởi no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this bài viết has helped bạn discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who bạn are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, hoặc anything else!
Reasons to Choose to Become Gay:
1.) To become rejected bởi society.
2.) To have multiple groups against myself.
3.) To raise risks of being physically harmed.
4.) To raise risks of being mentally harmed.
5.) To have less rights in the states.
6.) To risk loosing family support.
7.) To risk loosing friends.
8.) To risk loosing chances at good jobs.
9.) To get flamed for being a flamer.
10.) To be a large target for rude jokes.
11.) To be described as động vật to others.
12.) To be talked about as things among the law.
13.) To raise my chance of being lead toward suicide.
14.) To lose my chance at a rightful marriage.
15.) To hide myself from everyone else.
WHO WOULDN'T WANT ALL THAT! (:
Who would CHOOSE this!?
Being GAY is NOT a CHOICE.
1.) To become rejected bởi society.
2.) To have multiple groups against myself.
3.) To raise risks of being physically harmed.
4.) To raise risks of being mentally harmed.
5.) To have less rights in the states.
6.) To risk loosing family support.
7.) To risk loosing friends.
8.) To risk loosing chances at good jobs.
9.) To get flamed for being a flamer.
10.) To be a large target for rude jokes.
11.) To be described as động vật to others.
12.) To be talked about as things among the law.
13.) To raise my chance of being lead toward suicide.
14.) To lose my chance at a rightful marriage.
15.) To hide myself from everyone else.
WHO WOULDN'T WANT ALL THAT! (:
Who would CHOOSE this!?
Being GAY is NOT a CHOICE.
