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How do bạn get a friend back from another friend that is taking her away?

My friend is bein taken away and I hate the girl, she is goin off with im younger than 13! and I dont understand at all she hates me however, If a friend takes me away from her she cries and takes me back and gets annyoed but when she does it I dnt hoặc cnt do anything, They make dances up and stuff. Im crying Please help I dont have any friends, I found out I only had Những người bạn cuse she was VERY popular. IM SICK OF HER. PLEASE HELP
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The same thing is happening to me exept i dont hate the girl but its like shes trying to take away my best friend at first i didnt really notice but noow that i do i notice that they go over each others houses go swimming and they also text each other alot
cutiepie410456 posted hơn một năm qua
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me 2....
chumio posted hơn một năm qua
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The same thing happened to me too!! I had my first bff and then one girl Stealed my bff and i didnt want to lose her and i decided tobe three bffs And fall is in i was thinking who im i gonna sit today with? And i thinked then BAM!my 2 bff s were sitting together and gosipping my first bff was soo good and very like a god. Then. The sond stupid bff turned her into with OMG I HATE MY LIFE THEY A RE HANGING WHILE I M SICK OOOOOMG SHE IS SOO FUCKING DEAD IM NEVER GONNA BE Những người bạn AGAIN
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rebeccamoon101 said:
Tell her what bạn feel.Simply tell the truth and if she is a good friend and understands,then everything will be fine.But if she doesn't understand then she isn't such a good friend and only cares for herself.You will know bởi her answer whether she is a good friend,or whether there is someone else out there who will be a much better friend.
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posted hơn một năm qua 
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Also tell her that what she feels when bạn get pulled away;she might understand then
rebeccamoon101 posted hơn một năm qua
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this has really helped
daisythecat posted hơn một năm qua
graystone said:
Tell your friend you'd try to get around with her other friend. Give it try and if bạn can't adjust being around her, just tell your friend that it hurts bạn and about how bạn feel. Also, try mentioning that its not really fair that when bạn hang out with your friend then she can just be annoyed with bạn and when it's vice-versa, she expects bạn to deal with it.
Good luck :)
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fanmaniac said:
Whenever ur friend is on their own then say something to make them laugh, however if they are never on their own then arrange a ngày to meet with them.

Talk to the person who is taking ur friend away, treat them really nicely and make them feel sorry for bạn without saying anything about friendship.

If bạn know that whatever bạn do bạn will not come to peace with the person taking your friend away, then simply pretend that bạn are their friend, for example; if bạn see them walking around together then help yourself and go and tham gia them!

Have a party hoặc something! Invite your friend and the person taking your friend away to your house for a sleepover hoặc something like that.

make some new friends, that will help bạn no matter what.
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mango5210 said:
i think bạn should di chuyển on thats what i did i had the same problem too i still cry tooso listen to me and just di chuyển on for thêm deatails email me at mango521@live.com
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_Blackhearts_xx said:
If the person is able to take your freinds away, then they arn' yuor freinds to begin with.
I'd say maybe try and meet new people.
and still stay in touch with the Những người bạn who actually are your frineds.
and for that idiot thats taking your freinds. let her be a bitch, its her problem when everyone leaves her cause she wont be được ưa chuộng forever :)
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Usui--takumi said:
bạn must be 13+ to tham gia this site.
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posted hơn một năm qua 
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ok... what does THAT have to do with this?!?!
HotCupcake436 posted hơn một năm qua
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@hot: She đã đưa ý kiến she is younger than 13. Well, she is not allowed to tham gia this site. It's against the law of fanpop.
Usui--takumi posted hơn một năm qua
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bad answer... and, that is not the problem... stupid
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daisythecat said:
this is happening to me its so not fair and she has to go in for lunch early and she always takes my bestfriend so i have no one to sit tiếp theo to someone please help both of us
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Lisa02127kj said:
Oh, dats realy bad, it hapened 2 me too. Just try 2 convice ur frend dat dere r smthings she enjoys with u only. Lyk i wud talk all ngày with my frend(abt lots of things, im not gonna tell u, its secret) i kno she is missing u too. on d other hand crying is gud...it helps 2 shake up d bad stuff off ur mind nd think thêm clearly. GUD LUCK ;)
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princess19121 said:
Hi just tell her how bạn feel .and tell her not to be a jerk. and when another friend takes bạn away tell her not to be such a cry baby if she cant handl it then why should you.just give her a piece of her own medicin.
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iloveciel said:
Just talk to her about it,tell her how bạn feel about her hanging out with Ms.Popular :) And if she doesn't want to talk hoặc doesn't care...maybe its time to find another friend because thats not what a true friend would do :(
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Rubydhanraj said:
I know how ur feeling cause i used to go through this problem.I had a problem but know not anymore cause she had came crying for to be my best friend again and i forgive her because we were best Những người bạn from a long time so just wait for her to come back to u k
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karleigh54 said:
Well I think bạn should just try to find someone else and try to be there friend
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lord1bobos said:
before answering this câu hỏi bạn should notice something
1- may bb ms được ưa chuộng because she hates bạn and she want to see bạn alone
2- this girl will try to make your friend mad of bạn and she will tell her bad things about bạn
and these are another problems

and to solve this problem
bạn should hiển thị people and your friend that bạn don't hate this girl and bạn should treat her good so your friend will see that bạn are not bad with this girl and will think again about that girl
bạn DO NOT KNOW WHAT bạn HATERS ARE DOING
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chumio said:
I have the same problem. My bff melissa's old bestfriend joined are school.We had this one problem that screwed up are friendship but we managed to become Những người bạn again.Still....she goes to katherine thêm then me. I have to admit I get a little jelly. T^T......I feel like I'm loseing her.I tried to make her thạch, sữa ong chúa of me bởi making her feel like I don't need her. -.- trust me that was tough.But it didn't work.......AND THAT OTHER GIRL KATHERINE HATES ME....AND SHE DOESN'T WANT ME TO HANG WITH MELISSA!...-.- they also keep secreats from me. And katherine was trying to convince melissa not to be my friend. >.> some may say get a new bff.....but we have hard history....only bad part....katherine has thêm history...............glahhh.......
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lpsforever44 said:
same but im Những người bạn with the girl all u have 2 do is be nice to the both of them then start a conversation longer and longer each ngày hoặc say looking good hoặc nice hair when u walk bởi thnx 4 đọc :)
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kattymissy4ev said:
I have the same problem. They thing with mine though, is that bạn need to be best Những người bạn with the stealer. I was best Những người bạn with her but then left her cause my old BFFL was Mất tích and alone. That's how I got missy back. What bạn need to do is grab the chance whilst bạn have the chance. If bạn do P.E hoặc something at school always ask ur of BFF if bạn wanna be partners with her first. Arrange things with each other. Like say to her: Hey. BTW my mam arrange with ur mam that ur coming to my house on Saturday ( hoặc whenever (0) and where going swimming. Wanna come cause I get so bored nowadays. Or, pretend bạn have a sore tummy and cry infornt of her. That way, she will be like: awwww my poor best friend! Here, come sit tiếp theo to me!!! Also, get best friend charms for just u and ur old BFF. that way the stealer will get jealous. To jealous for ur BFFS liking! ;) (winks) . Also, make sure all the time ur partners together. Like cheat hoặc something. Make sure u sit tiếp theo to her in class hoặc wherever. But also, don't keep that clingy to her. Remember, everyone needs their space. Hope this hes and GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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fanoffriends22 said:
I feel bạn sister. I have the exact same problem right now. But I've learned that bạn can either be sad about it, hoặc di chuyển on with your life and dignity. Find some new friends! hoặc if bạn are absolutely positive that she is the only friend bạn can ever have, than talk to her about it. Maybe if she figures out about how bạn feel she'll try to include bạn more. I hope this helps you.
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ZiyaRaiSen said:
well i have almost the saMe problem..but the thing is the girl who is taking my bestfriend seemz rili nice..i feel rili jealous but cannot say hoặc do a single thing coz the girl is nice with me..just few days cách đây my bestfriend used to sit with me for a class and now she asked me to sit with sm1 else coz she finds that gal interesting and fun..m felt rili bad n jealous but cannot do a single thing...
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Catherine51197 said:
Its good to branch out to others & make new friends, so its good that your friend has done that. Try not to be too jealous &/or upset. The best way to get around those feelings is to go tham gia them & if bạn have trouble adjusting, tell your friend exactly how bạn feel. If she doesn't care, then she's obviously not really a true friend. So if this is the case, then don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone & befriend others. People will want to be your Những người bạn if bạn do make the effort :). Good luck :)!!
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Sophster6H said:
I think this is happening to me right now, it has before (by the same girl!). Don't worry, it gets better. Anyway, just follow them around. Make jokes and act like you're all Những người bạn together. This girl may hate you, but pretend bạn don't hate her. (Do bạn hate her? bạn must if she's taking your BFF away from you)

As for the dance bit, ask if bạn can join. If they say no, ask, "Why?" the girl who's taking away your friend will probably say something like "Oh, it's only meant for 2 people." Just block everything she says. Make dead ends, like bạn HAVE to tham gia and bạn WILL, because bạn DO have to tham gia and bạn WILL, right?

Anyway, best of luck, OP! Remember, if she's your best friend, she'll stick bởi you, right? :)
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problemsrmylife said:
The same thing is happening to me but don't worry your not alone just remember everything will get better and just be yourself
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pinkbem628 said:
My best friend Giuliana and her new BFF Fran were best Những người bạn since 1st grade. In 3rd grade i starting hanging out with Giuliana. Giuliana kept Fran as a best friend and still always hung out. This năm Fran starting hanging out with Giuliana and my friend, Giuliana đã đưa ý kiến that Fran đã đưa ý kiến to her NEVER TO HANG OUT hoặc TALK TO ME EVER AGAIN!!! Fran hates me and is taking my BFF away!!Over the summer I find myself hanging out with Giuliana and Giuliana đã đưa ý kiến that she hates Fran and đã đưa ý kiến she will never talk to her again beacause i didnt like her!! The best thing to do is wait and ur friend will come back to u

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abbixxx said:
Well to be honest I know it's really upsetting to be loosing a best friend but if bạn really want to get your best friend back there is no point just hating her new friend ...that won't get your best friend back. bạn should try and make Những người bạn with this girl. Get involved in the activities they do and bạn might not just get your friend back but make a new friend too. Hope this helps and remember never give up on a friendship bạn still want! :)
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RobertsFamily3 said:
I hope bạn have backup friends, because once your friend is stolen, you're never getting him/her back. (Is the stealer's name Laira? Then she's dominating the universe and bạn should try to force your friend NOT to hang out with them.)
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love_life05 said:
I think u just gotta act casual.
bởi me the Same is happening 😒 it's pretty hard to go through
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hatesomegalss said:
It's happening to me my best friend which I've known since being a baby we grew up together is being stolen this other girl is texting lots and lots when naming her Những người bạn she put her in front of me they sit together and leave me on my own and walk of to bữa tối, bữa ăn tối without me and I thought I was the one she trusted the most but all her biggest secrets she's telling to her first I hate it but is what bạn should do is act like bạn don't need her if she really cared she would come after bạn and find some new Những người bạn see what her reaction is hiển thị her bạn have other options not just her
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gujnhk said:
I had that, my friend's old best friend keeps on taking her then getting in arguments with me. And she is (my friend) oblivious to it and plays us both.So when me and her are in an argument she goes to her old best friend and when she and her old best friend get in an argument she comes to me.And really i think bạn need to make thêm friend so if this happens again bạn have others (like I have to do). :] but try to di chuyển the old friend away and get closer to your best friend

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umihavettertodo said:
xin chào the same thing is happening to me it all started when the girl started sitting with us at lunch then my best friend stopped talking to me and went to the best friend stealer to talk to and i was sitting there at lunch not talking to anyone then me and my best friend walk together at lunch then she started ditching me and went with the best friend stealer i don't have any other Những người bạn so i sat alone at lunch everyday then once i followed her to lunch she saw me sitting tiếp theo to her but didnt bother talking to me then i wrote this long text after that we started fighting alot then best friend she started spreading rumors about me saying i would hit her to the best friend stealer i HATE NATALIA AND ALWAYS WILL but now she has this other girl named bri she lấy trộm, đánh cắp her and so the two people and best fiend became a threesome and i was the lonely I HATE NATALIA QUIRK BRIANANA PANGIA F*** them all And they r turning her goth
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milliemilie said:
same is happening to me but the girl who is taking me and my friend away has done this to other people and I'm only 10 I've tried everything but its not working bạn should just try to play with her again and if she says back off stand up to her hoặc tell a teacher it might help. if its so bad tell your mam,dad hoặc family members it can help a lot coz they know what to do I promise they do but idk if this will work what I'm telling bạn just try it.
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cutecake2007 said:
My first real friend abandoned me but try having a lot of play dates also try stealing her back bởi making yourself thêm interesting. Even if bạn have to lie. bạn have to try.
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