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Stuck in the middle... Please help me!

Ok so I have quite a few friends, but 2 very special ones. The only problem is that they dont like eachother and r very competitive. Over me I mean. Everyday they bribe me with stuff so I can like one them the most and they tug my arms so hard I could be ripped in half! I like them equally, I really do. I tried to explain this to them but they just acted as if they never heard me! They'll do ANYTHING to make me like one of them the most. Eventually, i got really sick of them and completely broke up with both of them in such a dramatic way. Now they r really sorry to me and have even tried to get along for my forgiveness! (Im just still not sure if they r REALLY Những người bạn yet tho)... half of me wants to forgive them, half of me doesn't. So... All i wanna know is.. Should I forgive and forget hoặc just leave them for good?
 jamtart01 posted hơn một năm qua
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gossipgirlstar2 said:
I think that first of all bạn must learn if they are really Những người bạn so as not to do this again to you...If bạn see that they are pretending and they are doing this only for bạn to forgive them and then start all over I think that bạn should leave them for good because bạn can't change two people tha dislike each other...But if they are really Những người bạn and care about you, bạn should forgive them... I think that it wouldn't be right if they
were pretending that they are Những người bạn just to bring bạn back and then start arguing again...

I hope I helped...

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well thank u ill see what happens on monday :)
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JustLikeSoul said:
I think bạn should wait for a time likehalf tháng ,maybe it is too long,leave them alone and see their behaviors without bạn and make your decision after that :)
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ohk
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jedigal1990 said:
i personally think bạn should forgive them but let them know that what they did before is not going to be tolerated bạn can't make them be Những người bạn and if their not thats still ok as long as they understand that they must respect that bạn like both of them equally and fighting with each other will not help any and will cause bạn not to want to be their friend but really it comes down to how much your friendship means to you. So forgive them but set limits to prevent yourself from the harm of the two of them fighting for bạn because it is not fair for them to make bạn chose between the two hope this helps and wish bạn the best of luck
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sounds good
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joebro521 said:
Well, what i think bạn should do is make sure that they are Những người bạn bởi talking to them and making sure. So if they don't work it out then mabey bạn should just tell them that your not going to deal with it and just walk out and let them work it out before u get in the middle.
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babyjay said:
i think bạn should sit them down and tell them that if they where both true Những người bạn that they would have never made bạn choose and that if it happens again it will hurt you. i dont think bạn should leave them because true Những người bạn are really worth some thing special. hold on to them but explain how bạn feel to them. if bạn need thêm help let me know.
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