wat to do....need advice?

Its a tough call to decide what to do.
In my experience, if bạn don't hear something first hand it can be easy to be misled bởi wrong information.
Talk to your ex, maybe casually bring up an idea of getting back together hoặc still having some feelings. Take it slow and don't scare him off.
Wait for a time that bạn guys are comfortable together, don't just spring it on him.
The most important time is to think about what bạn say before bạn say it, take it slow and be confident.
Good luck :]

first off don't believe in what other people say about the problem just confront him.