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is she,starting to hate me now?

Well,my friend who i knew since 4th grade,has recently started to be mean to me. She,hardly notices me,sort of yelled at me once,and told me to shut up when i đã đưa ý kiến hi. Then,during the 2nd to last ngày of school,to get back at some guy,she grabbed my book,not the libary book,but my own book that i bought with my late mom's money,and threw it at him. When,i got the book back,it was bent and had marks on it. So,i got upset over it,and mumbled stuff. Then,she thinks i'm making a big deal over a book,but i said,she shouldn't have thrown my book in the first place. So,a little bit after that,she got mad at me,for cussing. Which,last i checked,i didn't. She kept saying,my mom wouldn't like me to cuss,and that she knows i cussed,and that i wasn't supposed to cuss,because it was against my religon. (Which,it's not. i just don't usually,cuss until i'm mad.) So,she đã đưa ý kiến she hated people,who did that. The whole time,her friend,who just sticks to her side calls me stupid. The whole time,in my head. i wanted to tell her to shut the f**k up. But,i knew that it wouldn't help. So,what should i do about my.."friend?"
 egyptprincess7 posted hơn một năm qua
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BabyBlud said:
I don't think she's starting to hate you, i think she's trying to exclude bạn but being mean enough to make bạn leave. Những người bạn will always break away from each other to lead their own lives, so losing a friend shouldn't be that big a deal, you'll always make thêm in the end. One's who will stay bởi your side for years to come.

This friend of yours needs to get her actions straight and your must tell her so. Invite her round to your house for trà and express your feelings in a calm and above all mature manner. Just explain that her gần đây behaviour has made bạn feel like she is trying to push bạn away and bạn would like to know why. Tell he she has no right to take your things without your permission and use them and to never mention your mother in the heat of the moment. Your mother is not a tool she can use to get her own way.
bạn need to stand up for yourself because a friend who will use bạn will continue to do so if bạn don't nip it in the bud now.
bạn could also widen your social vòng tròn to include others so bạn are not totally dependant on that one friend, so if she does decide you've grown apart, bạn won't be totally alone.
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cparty721 said:
Shes not a real friend she wouldnt do any of that if she was a real friend
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