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Ok, so I need advice!

So I have this friend and she's nice and everything but aaah! She sometimes is just sooo ARGH! I mean she's always nghề viết văn in chat speak and that annoys me soooo much and then when we are talking of something serious she just says "ok lol" and she is really egocentric, like it seems that she doesn't care about anyone else's problems and then she comes crying to all our Những người bạn and especially with me. And also just today I was speaking to her about my frustrations and again she đã đưa ý kiến "ok lolz" and started talking about "hut guyz" and hiển thị me pictures of them. Also she's like a bubble gum, she calls me everyday, copies eveything I do, if I like something she likes it too, etc.

And really I don't know what to say to her. I can't tell her she's tedious because she will get mad at me and I think that she's fun. But she is calling me her BFF and I have just met her for less than a năm and I have this friend that has been 7 years with me and she thinks I'm not paying a lot attention to her...

What to do?
 huddysmacked posted hơn một năm qua
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dollyllama247 said:
Wow. Thats tough. Just tell her to stop. But not yell at her. just say "Could bạn please stop. That's really bothering me." Hope i could help.
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HuddyBrave said:
Ok well I had a friend like that and I got VERY mad at her one ngày and when she asked me why I was mad I told her all of the things that made me angry but not in a rude way but just like nicely. I learned this a long time cách đây that if bạn use "I" statements that it is better for not making someone angry. Like if bạn say "I hate it when we are talking about something and bạn say lol"Or something like that she will most likely get angry but if instead bạn say ," I feel that when I am talking about something that is very important it is kinda rude to say lol." That is what i do I know its hard to figure out what to say but that is what i do and mabye bạn could try and drop subtile hints about her doing stuff like bạn like once someone was doing that to me and I talked to some of my toher Những người bạn with her standing there and at my school we call the people who follow and copy eachother 'sheep' so I đã đưa ý kiến something like,"dont bạn hate it when there are con cừu, cừu all over?? I like it when people are their own person......"That is what I would try...

Please dont hate me if that doesnt work out....

Hope I helped :)
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renesmee13 said:
well huuuuuuuum lets see bạn should tell her how bạn feel
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snake2315 said:
well ithink u should talk to her about how bạn fell about this situation and listen to her because on of the most important things in life is being able to comunicate to each-other:)
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boredhedgehog said:
hmmm
she sounds like my ex-BFF
i just waited and we seperated....
now i have a new BFF and she is jelous.....
idk what to do eather
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aholic said:
bạn should give her the "ok, lolz" back when she wants to talk about something... and then bạn should talk thêm to your old friend and maybe say to your annoying friend that "no sorry I can't talk right now, I'm with..." so she would get the message - that she is not your bff and egocentric.
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