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What should I do? AND Is this okay?

My junior năm of high school, a new history teacher was sent in. He was young, single, dorky, but nice; I never thought of him in any attractive sense AT ALL.
I graduated last June a few days after my 18th birthday. But here's the kicker. In October, my DAD started to hang out with this ex-history teacher. A lot. And though we are about 10 years apart in age and I am a former student, my dad has tried to repeatidly get me to impress the guy in order of hooking us up.

I DON'T like it, but they're suddenly best Những người bạn and dad keeps putting me in awkward predicaments with the guy. What should I do?
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Whether someone is older than bạn hoặc just plain not your type, it's your decision.

Your father shouldn't be trying to push this on you. No one can ever force bạn to like someone; choosing hoặc just knowing someone is your soul-mate is done bởi your own accord. No one đã đưa ý kiến that bạn couldn't be Những người bạn with this ex-teacher of yours (although, personally, if it were me I would think it awkward to be buddy-buddy close). If bạn think that you're better off keeping your distance hoặc having the relationship professional, then bạn can do that too. Listen to what bạn think bạn should do, not what others tell bạn what bạn should think.

It's understandable that your dad is best Những người bạn with this guy, but sometimes bạn need to take a stand and hiển thị others that bạn can't always give them what they want. bạn shouldn't be afraid to say "no" hoặc anything either; everyone has the right to say what they feel hoặc think they should do. I've đã đưa ý kiến this a lot to people, but you're not a doormat or, possibly in this case, someone's doll. I think bạn should have a talk with your father about this. Say that bạn understand completely that he's good Những người bạn with this teacher, but you're just not liking him in that way. Also, it's not very appropriate for your father to try pushing the both of bạn together. Relationships take time to grow, also, and trying to speed things up WITH some other guy that bạn don't feel intimate about sounds unacceptable. Just remember not to come off as harsh, but firm -- assertive.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other các câu hỏi that bạn may have.
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Thank bạn so much :)
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sehdt said:
That's not easy to deal with. My thought would be tell dad to stop it your 18 and he is embarrasing you. Unless bạn would like something to happen between bạn in which case go along with it as best bạn can and see what happens. One word of warning. I am currently having an emotional affair with a man 18 years older than me it started as he was a work mate of my brothers and then became a family friend then I got a big crush on him and then I told him how I felt and even though he is married he willingly got together with me. No before bạn wonder we do only chat and Kiss and hold hands etc and does not go any further. But bạn see something very innocent can become something bigger and to be honest it does not take very long to happen sometimes. So your best bet is to work out how bạn feel about him and then explain to dad and if necassary tell the man himself so he knows how bạn feel. Hope my answer helps you.
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Thank bạn :)
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GoldnSnitch_96 said:
LOL. Ur dad be trollin'.
Just take it easy. Just go along with it to piss him off lol.





XD this isn't a problem. Lol. Who cares if your dad keeps trying to make bạn impress him. Just be modest and go against it, I guess.
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I'm quite a rebel, dad's used to that! LOL – Liên minh huyền thoại Thank bạn :)
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CCSunshine said:
NO, JUST NO.
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