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so here's the story. I just started dating my bf he's cool and a real sweetheart...but i feel he's a bit clingy hoặc needy. i mean we were on the phone and he was like 'What are bạn doing?' 'chatting' 'with other guys?!?!?' 'no' 'dont lie' 'im not' then like a few phút cách đây i was like 'hey babe im tired night' and i went to bed. Then he skypes me so i answer. 'hi baby what's up?' 'i thought bạn were sleeping...and whats with half the tim, trái tim note?' (i had this note i put up a few months cách đây that read without bạn im half a heart...forgot to update it) 'i was...' 'dont lie to me babe.' 'im not and the note was up months ago' so i go to change it...but for some reason skype put the old one back. 'Why'd bạn put half a tim, trái tim up again?! are u unhappy with me?' 'no. i tình yêu you' then he went to bed...but would bạn say hes needy? and what should i do to stop him from diễn xuất this way?
 liakarad1 posted hơn một năm qua
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Zeppie said:
bạn say bạn guys just started dating...so in my opinion, if he's diễn xuất like that in the very beginning...then it does come across as odd.

It depends really how he says it. He could be just teasing and playing with you, but if bạn feel like it's going beyond teasing, then definitely just tell him straight up that you're not comfortable with all the questions.
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thanks ^_^ and i also think he's not joking about it
liakarad1 posted hơn một năm qua
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Then definitely tell him you're not comfortable with it. If he doesn't change his attitude then he's selfish and doesn't respect your wishes. Good luck with it all ^^
Zeppie posted hơn một năm qua
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Well maybe ha has had stuff happen to him in the past and is afraid....Did bạn ask him about his past relationships... Make sure bạn are being fair also, he could have had something happen in the past and he is just really emotional. That might be why he does the things he does :)
LovableXNerd posted hơn một năm qua
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Hmmm...he did say his ex cheated O.o
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EgoMouse said:
What I would do: Dump him, he reminds me too much of my psycho ex-girlfriend that was too clingy. Couldn't stand her. Would not ngày him even if he was good at sex hoặc something. Though, he's kinda cute in a annoying, weird đít, mông, ass way.
My advice: I would find out if he had past relationships. He could of had a girlfriend(s) that cheated on him.
He's likely not ready for a relationship either way. Relationships without trust is a waste of time.
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thanks ^_^ and yes his ex (of 2 yrs) cheated
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Book-Freak said:
I would call that controlling, not clingy! bạn need to be straight with him about the boundaries of your relationship - not only is he calling bạn a liar, but implying that he doesn't want bạn talking to other boys, which he has no right to do. He needs to know that he does not need to know who bạn talk to and cannot control who bạn hang out with. If he can't respect this, bạn should consider ending things with him.
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