I am sure lot of bạn won't agree with me but anyway this is my opinion. This riot going on that HP is better than Twilight is beyond me. These sách are riveting and thrilling in their own way.
First Twilight, yes I too realise it has too much of tình yêu and unrealistic charecteristics in people. However bạn have to say it is great piece of imagination. We have to understand that HP plot is far bigger than that of Twilight. It is a plot where the survival of the world depends on one character whereas in Twilight it is just the fate of two ngôi sao crossed những người đang yêu and the obstacles faced bởi them. HP plot is far thêm enthralling than that of T.
The events in HP are wrtitten in a exemplary way. In Twilight they just seem to drag. However when it comes to the interactions and situations explained bởi Bella it does in a way relate to our thought process.
In HP the characters grow in the sách which makes bạn feel like bạn knoe them but in T no such thing exists but bạn must say the human characters can reflect reality in a different level. The vampire and the wizards, from small days we were taught that they don't exist. In T there is a element of darkness weaved into the tình yêu which on a subconcious level we might not like however this is no reson to hate it. It Stephenie Meyer's potrayal of ma cà rồng as it differs from others. Like wizards are admiring J.K Rowlings potrayal of wizards.
The bottom line is that both sách have their upsides and downsides. We are not critising the sách but the author. This is their imaginations. Some think HP characters are better because that is how JKR wanted it and it differs to SM characters. Nobody thinks hoặc imagines the same.
Another factor is that people have different preferences. Some may like Supernatural and romance and others mystery, thrill and adventure. So it might not be the sách at all but rather bạn don't agree with another person's preferences.