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would bạn ever go out with someone who cut ?
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Yes, of course. Just because they have struggled, and felt the need to harm themselves, doesn't make them any less worthy of love/affection. If anything, they may need it more. I wouldn't only go out with them, I'd do everything I could to try and help them, and just be there for them. Because I know what it's like to self harm, and how much bạn struggle, and how much bạn fall down, and I know how hard it is to not have someone to pick bạn back up. There is no doubt in my mind, that I would ngày someone who self harmed.
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
No. I have nothing against people themselves, just "the act" and I am not saying I am better-than, I understand cutting and how it begins and why it remains but I found out my ex was emo and cut and I have enough to deal with in my life - I do not mind someone with similar backgrounds/feelings hoặc similar issues to my own as long as we can co-exist and it be in a semi-postive way that is okay, but I do not want emotional baggage and I do not want to deal with someone else's. I would rather us be willing to work on and heal. To me, if bạn are cutting, bạn have a way to go and I am not there. I worked hard and for years to get over my divorce, (not a cutter-but that left a scar, I have had enough "emotional" scars to heal from), a lifetime to deal with messed up family stuff, and self-harm I did enough of in other ways in the past so it is not what I want to see someone do to themselves! Not at all! It isn't cool, I don't think it is interesting hoặc romantic, no thêm than any other messed up coping skill. Like I said, I have enough in my life that I deal with hoặc have and things not cool. I want to ngày thêm emotionally fit and healthy as possible who is as relationship/romantically capable as possible. No one is perfect, but I do want progress hoặc a fit that is right for me hoặc raise me. It scars the body & hurts those who care Not suicidal people either, if I know not that I choose-No.
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sarabeara said:
Not knowingly. I need emotional stability in a relationship.
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summer2987 said:
sure , i guess , it really depends on their personality and who they are .
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LaDispute said:
Well I would never be put off bởi someone just because they have scars, especially since I've got some, but I mean as always it depends. I'm not a huge người hâm mộ of the shallow cut-for-attention kind of person and all that, the kind who cuts just to get noticed~
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Hamuko said:
I'm not sure. I myself am not very stable a person, and in a relationship, I think I'm the one that needs support and all that... I don't think I'd be able to always be there to help someone who does that, because I need help myself. I need someone strong to depend on. If I really loved the person, then sure... I'd try to help them the best I can, and make it work somehow. But I think if someone cuts, we'd most likely just be friends, and I'd try to help them to the best of my ability, as a friend. Uhh... that sounds less mean in my head than it does here.
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zutaradragon said:
well considering i'm sorda surprised i don't....yeah....
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SeeUV3 said:
Yes i have before i am also a cutter so :/
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egyptprincess7 said:
Yeah,I would. They deserve tình yêu too,I would try to help the person in any way I can.
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zanesaaomgfan said:
Yeah. bạn just have to be my type and have a clean record.
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boytoy_84 said:
bạn mean someone who's circumcised? because I don't understand your question.
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cutiepie0310 said:
Maybe. I already know a friend who told me two weeks cách đây that she was cutting. It doesn't bother me too much, but I still worry.
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herpinaderpson said:
Yes. I like giving Lời khuyên to depressed people. If my ngày did self-harm, I would find a way to talk to him about it.
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missracoon said:
As long as I liked the guy enough to help him with it, I would.
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micheal7777 said:
idk im so depressed right now i cant think straight
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Otaku_Girl4890 said:
I don't think I could, I don't like the idea of dating someone with the same problems as me, it sounds sad. I'm a very quiet shy person, I couldn't talk about this stuff with most people in person, and people who do self harm tend to talk about it alot, and that would be too depressing for me.
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polarwagon15 said:
No fucking way! I hate cut, especially whenever I'm trying to copy the text I accidentally click cut and see before my eyes half of my work go the waste. Fuck cut.
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bubblegum_kiss said:
Yes but i would try to convince them to stop and do everything i could to try to help them and if they didnt stop after going out with me awhile i would probably have to break up with them because even if i liked them as a person the thought of cutting really disgusts me.
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MarineHolocaust said:
yeah. yea h you're a fucking douche if bạn wouldn't tbh i mean. Unless you're emotionally incapable of dealing with that
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