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nad7988 said:
1. first, I want bạn to tell me the worst, most utterly offensively way that bạn can, about how bạn felt about me earlier on that day. As best bạn can, take your time, and don’t leave any hurtful little details out.
2. how much of that do bạn still feel?
3. anything else bạn wanna add about why bạn were so mad? (emotional?)….anything??
4. …k. I want bạn to know that I understand just about everything bạn were saying and that all makes perfect sense to me(except: blah, blah blah). I wanted to hear the way bạn felt about it first, before I told bạn how I feel.
5. First, I’ll say the strongest way I felt about the situation.
6. Secondly, now that I had time to think about it, I considered your view of it, and like I đã đưa ý kiến before, I completely understand (Points: A, B, C, etc.)
7. How about you, do bạn understand a little bit better how I saw things?
8. You know I never meant to (all the negative things she saw)
9. The rest should work its way out.
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