GUY PROBLEM!!!!

my neighbor likes me a lot! so one ngày my friend heather found out and so since hes never asked me out heather dared me to ask him out and when i did he đã đưa ý kiến i cant not that i dont want to its just we go to diffrent schools and i wouldnt get to see bạn a lot(he lives far from my house he visits his dad every other weekend) and so know i kinda like him but i dont know what to do because i just had my tim, trái tim broken and i dont want that again...HELP!!