Has anyone but me noticed that all the host club refer to Harahi as 'she' hoặc 'her' all the time, while they are hosting. Why do the người hâm mộ girls never notice this?

Uhhh...are bạn talking about subtitled hoặc dubbed? If you're talking about dubbed, I've sworn myself off of even looking at it, so I couldn't help bạn there.

As for subtitled, they've always acted like she was a guy. They call her simply 'Haruhi,' adding no titles to the end, save for Honey senpai, who calls her 'Haru-chan,' but he does it in a cutesy manner.

maybe những người hâm mộ thought they call haruhi as 'she' hoặc 'her' thinking that they are calling like that because maybe it thêm sound cute?!?

doesn't make sense through :P