My bf is moving to Manitoba this summer. What should I do?
We have been dating 4 months now and are so deeply in love. We would do anything for each other and are so close. Im in grade 11 and hes in grade 12. he wants me to di chuyển to Manitoba and live with him once im 18. but the distance is what is so hard. we live a 2 giờ drive apart now, and our relationship is hard enough now let alone him going to manitoba with his family. what should I do?
If you're truly in love, and are willing to do anything to make it work, it can. Long distance is really, -really- difficult.. but if bạn both put in the effort bạn can make your relationship strong enough to endure the distance, and pretty much anything.
There are ways to make it a little easier, Skype/webcamming, texting, emailing, socialnetworking, talking on the phone, sending letters, and if possible, visiting eachother.
And having the fear that they'll find someone else is pretty natural, at least I think so. I'm always afraid my LDG will find someone better and just forget about me, but then again I have faith she won't, because I know what I mean to her, and how much she loves me. I also trust her 100%. And bạn have to trust your boyfriend too.
Before bạn decide to go long distance, bạn really have to talk about it and make sure that you're both positive this is what bạn want. LDR's aren't for the faint of heart, trust me. If bạn aren't seriously dedicated it's not going to work out, and you're just wasting your time.
If bạn are though, then I wish bạn both the best of luck!