I know that does not sound very romantic hoặc anything, especially since I did not do internet relation things of ANY kind, & was totally against. He was one of the first people to become a người hâm mộ and a friend here on fanpop, to post to me and talk and we actually ended up becoming friends, then best friends. My Những người bạn became Những người bạn then we all became tight. XD That was cool.
I had a casual relationship with another guy at the time, on a romantic level, and no one knew, but I had not dated in so long that I was not wanting anything hoặc needing much to be content.
He told me he had a crush on me & that he liked me thêm than a friend hoặc thêm than he had anyone, that I understood him, and could talk to me like no other female, but I had someone and thought I was happy at the time, and he had his gfs and so life went on. My relationship became thêm serious, his went the other way, and for a while I was caught between a best-friend and boyfriend. Both disliked the other and were both protective & rivals. Things got worse and heated at times. My Những người bạn told me I was going to have to choose. That tore me up. Everyone đã đưa ý kiến I could not have both! I refused to listen until I reluctantly gave in after several pretty heated episodes between my bf & bestie. As soon as I did, even before I realized I had chosen the wrong one, my tim, trái tim broke. My best friend accepted my decision but I almost instantly knew that it was wrong, ridiculous and I really couldn't choose, regardless of outcome. From that time on, we made a pact. We never ever wanted to lose each other.
I ended up with HIM.
My bf before did not prove to have the same kind of dedication hoặc integrity. My best-friend was loyal- very true to our friendship and so I decided to give him a chance- one little date. That never worked in the past for me, and I'd được trao up on that. I've had great Những người bạn not bad looking either, but no chemistry. I did not think we would have ANY chemistry.
For several reasons I did not think things would work and I was completely pessimistic. I under estimated him and I had discarded without giving it a chance. I fought against it in my mind, too, even after, wanting to keep my distance. But the chemistry was HUGE and instant and seemed out of nowhere to me, maybe not to him, but to me, I was shocked and never so wrong in my life! O.O
We still have that chemistry: seven months, six officially Jan 12th.