HOW DO I REACT WHEN MY GF SAYS SHES STRAIGHT!?!?!?!

ok so me and my girlfriend have been on and off for sorta the past two yrs. she says bc shes only in tình yêu with one girl it makes her straight not bi. what do u think... is she straight hoặc bi? and how should i react when she says this?
 Hills1021 posted hơn một năm qua
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Ninja-Kitten said:
Well bạn might be the one exception to her normally straight preferences, hoặc she might be slightly bisexual.

If she's saying it in a way that means she doesn't like bạn anymore, I would try to resolve the problem either bởi talking about it hoặc breaking up with her if that's the only way.

But if she's saying it in a way that shows she's feeling vulnerable and scared, try and comfort her and help her through it.
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and if she says she still loves me?
Hills1021 posted hơn một năm qua
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ask in what way she loves you. as a friend hoặc a stronger tình yêu if that makes sense. she might want something new, hoặc maybe she is just confused. I personally think the fact that she loves bạn means she is bi, tình yêu takes time no matter who bạn are dating, and maybe bạn can make her realize that, because loving one girl doesn't make someone (girl) a lesbian either. I hope that makes sense
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Xeginy said:
I can see how this would be confusing. But at the end of the day, your girlfriend defines her own sexuality, on her own terms. She may have đã đưa ý kiến that because she is in tình yêu with bạn (as she said) but feels very little attraction to any other women. It's not uncommon.

As to how bạn react...let her define her own sexuality, in her own words. It's not for you, hoặc anyone else, to do that for her.
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writer67 said:
tình yêu is weird, it tests us in oh so many ways, bạn have all this want to be happy with an equal,and your tim, trái tim seems to be on a string.allow her to go if bạn trully tình yêu her,as if bạn hold her to tight bạn may hurt thêm than yourself. be happy bạn can talk,even if its trivial,best to be freinds for ever, than someone bạn have to walk away from,it hurts,for your tim, trái tim is good, and an equal deserves an equal.chin up, smile bạn are a good person,just thêm romantic than others, good luck in your endeavours;-]

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