“Are bạn the guy hoặc the girl in the relationship?”

obviously, if I’m with a guy we are both “the guy” no matter who gets penetrated thêm regularly. When dating a guy I am no longer a part of your “male-female” dichotomy. I wish that thêm people would remember this.

Does it annoy hoặc even offend anyone else when people ask this? Goes for đồng tính nữ too obviously.
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r-pattz said:
Yes. It feels like they're saying that in a relationship, there should only be one girl and one guy. "It's not a straight relationship, people. We're both girls."

However, I don't really mind people asking who "wears the pants." Yes, it is a bit of a stereotype to assume that there is still one "more masculine" person in the relationship, and sometimes no one really "wears the pants," but at least it's recognizing that there are two people of the same gender in the relationship.

Lol, and why did bạn capitalize "lesbians"? =P
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It's not capitalised on my screen. O_o
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Insight357 said:
No, that's probably because I just sort of get what they're asking. It's kind of a, 'who's the top, who's the bottom' situation. It just doesn't bother me.
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oboe_player said:
I've never been in a relationship before, but I imagine it would get a little bit annoying.
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seeuvocaloid3 said:
I find that offencev for sure (im a terrible speller sorry) and dose it matter if there smae sex couples? i think not there dosent need to be a boy and girl all there needs to be is happyness
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