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It's only Elena for Damon:

Damon is in tình yêu with Elena - and for the last time, as much as I hate to be the bearer of bad news, just because bạn don’t like it, it doesn’t make it any less true. bạn can call it obsession if it makes bạn feel any better, but Damon loving Elena is cannon. It doesn’t matter that I think Stefan and Elena don’t have the right chemistry for bf/gf; they’re in a relationship and tình yêu each other. So my opinion, just like your opinion of Damon’s tình yêu for Elena, simply does not matter.

When Damon falls in love, he falls HARD. Think about how much Katherine put him through before he got over her. And the only reason he finally did was because he found out she never gave a shit about him. Are bạn trying to tell me that Elena will EVER stop caring about him? Even at a time when she hated him, she still understood him better than anyone ("He doesn’t want to feel, he wants to be hated. It’s just easier that way"). So it would be very out of character for her to give up on him after she's already accepted him even after he killed her brother in front of her. He always knew he didn’t deserve anyone’s friendship because he lived his life being a horrible person. But then she came and gave him a chance when nobody else did. Everyone has a right to not like him, especially Elena, but she’s the only one who was willing to see the good beneath the bad. Damon falling out of tình yêu with Elena will not make sense. Hence why the only thing I will ever find OOC is Damon falling for Bonnie, hoặc anyone else for that matter.

Damon deserves better than Bonnie:

People say that being with Elena would cause him pain for various reasons, and I just can’t help but think how they picture a relationship with Bonnie. Do bạn think being with Bonnie would result in Damon’s happiness? Numerous brain aneurisms and being set on ngọn lửa, chữa cháy are the results of Damon doing things that Bonnie did not approve of. I’ve seen so many people refer to Damon and Elena being in a relationship as unhealthy, and yet somehow the fact that Bonnie uses forms of physical torture to make him act how she wants him to, is so much better. Except it doesn’t even work. If bạn try to force someone to be a better person, they are not going to become a better person. They have to do it on their own. I don’t think Elena makes Damon behave better, I think the tình yêu that he has for her automatically helps him be a better person. He still has a long way to go, but she’s the one who set him on the right path which is something that even his own brother couldn’t do in 145 years. But she didn’t do it bởi force. She encouraged him, but him wanting to save the town instead of destroying it was a progress that he made all on his own.

bạn think Damon has changed too much now for Elena? What do bạn think will happen if he starts wanting Bonnie's approval? How big of a change would that have to be?? And if he doesn’t change, how would it work? There are things about Damon that Elena can never like hoặc approve of, but that doesn’t mean she doesn't like who Damon is - she very clearly stated that in the finale. Damon would have to change everything about himself to be with Bonnie because she doesn’t care for who he is even outside his wrong actions. That chemistry that bạn see between Damon and Bonnie will be gone bởi the time Damon is "good" enough for him to be someone who Bonnie can fall in tình yêu with. He'd have to cut off his nuts and hand them over and then it's bye-bye Damon. bạn say Damon is whipped now, but he still stands up to Elena and calls her out when he thinks she’s being crazy hoặc stupid. The reason he can is because Elena is his girlfriend and still accepts him at the end of the day.

Damon: bad. Bamon: good?

bạn keep talking about how Damon needs someone to keep him in check, but have bạn ever thought about what Damon wants? If your first thought is "It doesn’t matter what he wants" then this is yet ANOTHER reason why I can’t get on board with this pairing. Now I know not every Bamon shipper dislikes Damon (and if bạn don’t, feel free to ignore this part), but I've noticed that A LOT do. bạn criticize Damon every chance bạn get, and yet bạn say Bamon is your OTP. When bạn don't care about half your ship, Bamon probably makes sense. But for those of us who actually like Damon and want to see him happy and think that he deserves someone who sees the good in him, Bamon makes no sense because Bonnie is exactly opposite of what Damon wants. I can understand if bạn don't like Damon around Elena, because frankly from what we’ve seen in the past 2 seasons, I don't like who Bonnie is around Damon either. She's supposed to be a good character but usually when she's around him she gets this bitchy, holier than though attitude that makes her unlikable in my eyes. But I still like Bonnie as an individual character…whether she's alone, hoặc with Jeremy, hoặc whatever the case may be. That's why I also see this ship as toxic for Bonnie.

Bonnie deserves better than Damon:

Now let's talk about things from the Bonnie side of this pairing. Should Bonnie just throw away everything that makes her, her, so she could be in a relationship?

Bonnie's các lượt xem and beliefs are what differentiate her from someone like Elena. Those beliefs would HAVE to change for her to be with someone like Damon. And just think…poor Grams would probably roll over in grave. Can’t imagine Bonnie (who considered grams to be her closest family and mentor) to just go against everything the woman taught her. And if Bonnie is going to remain Bonnie, she shouldn't. Isn't the fact that she sticks to her súng one of the reasons why her những người hâm mộ admire her so much?

I always see people say that Bonnie needs someone who can challenge her and I find this to be odd coming from Bonnie fans, as if bạn don’t know the first thing about her. It was always very obvious but she even spelled it out this past season: I don’t particularly enjoy any of this in case bạn haven't noticed.
Bonnie doesn't want to be challenged…she wants to use her powers for doing good. Damon is a pain in the butt who will cause her stress and anger and every other reason why she was/is not very happy about being a witch. So Bonnie doesn’t need someone to challenge her, she needs someone who encourages her to grow. A man who is right for Bonnie will want to keep her an toàn, két an toàn at all costs and will always be there for her. He’ll make her happy and will see her as thêm than just a witch. Every interaction that Damon has had with Bonnie was because he needed her help to save Elena. He doesn’t see her as thêm than a witch, he doesn’t care about her, he WOULD let her die if necessary, as he has repeatedly said. Don’t bạn think Bonnie deserves better than that?

In conclusion:

Despite what I've seen numerous time, Damon and Bonnie are not equals. The fact that they're both Supernatural beings is not enough to make them equal partners. One would have to completely change themselves to be accepted bởi the other, especially as a life partner. Now I’m not saying that they will never happen, just why they shouldn't. It will ruin these characters as well as the core storyline of the entire series, not to mention it would be a cheap cop-out to have the "other" guy in the tam giác fall for someone else. I know Damon&Elena together are FAR from perfect, and I’m not going to expect any relationship on this hiển thị to be flawless, but I think a certain foundation is required to make a couple believable, and Damon and Bonnie have nothing that allows for that. There is no trust, loyalty, friendship, hoặc care between these two, and because of the way their characters have been built, it would be unrealistic to have either one fall for each other at any point in the series.


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Collected from various sources on tumblr. These barely scratch the surface and give bạn a little insight into the show. Interpretation not 100% correct and open to debate.

Thoughts on stefan/SE:

Stefan is not who he appears in the Pilot. He starts the hiển thị bởi saying “This is my story” and constructing himself as a version of himself who just wants to start a life with the human doppelgänger of the girl he loved so long ago. Who just wants to live a life in peace drinking animal blood in the town he grew up in without the torment of his older brother. Rewatching early season one with the...
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posted by delenaforever7
why season four has been the perfect timing for delena to happen .... first I want to say that I've never read the sách so when I started to watch the hiển thị I had no idea what it was about and it didn't occur to me that a tình yêu tam giác wil be formed.. especially one that includes the heroin and the "villain". as the hiển thị went on I never bought the relationship between Stefan and Elena it was based on lies and secrets, and it was too rushed that I didn't see the " falling in tình yêu " part ... at the same time I started to see Damon and Elena as Những người bạn , they started to earn each others trust...
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For all the people do don't want to see the ratings drop if we all quit watching. hoặc those who are confused about our loyalty to the show. We are not only watching this hiển thị for Delena. I, personally, watch this for quite a few reasons and I'm sure many (if not most) other Delena những người hâm mộ do as well.

These include...

Interesting relationships- Dalaric...is dead. Klaroline...is dying. Deremy...missed its time. Steroline...is hindered bởi Stelena. I know Stefan is the 'good guy' and if he managed to stay on the wagon he wouldn't be bad for Elena in the long term either. But does anyone really want to...
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~ Chapter 3 ~

Both Stefan and Elena were broken out of their thoughts at his voice and there was silence before Stefan finally started after a deep sigh, 'Maybe bạn should sit down, Damon'

Elena eyes were burning with tears and her eyes were fixed on Damon as if, if stopped looking, her tim, trái tim wouldn't continue beating. Damon made his way over to the trái cam, màu da cam đi văng n sat down with his elbows on his knees. She could smell him. Elena could breathe in the scent of the coconut shampoo, the fresh smell of his body wash, the scent aroused her, she took in a deep sigh and it took everything in her to...
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1.Being completely truthful to a girl bạn want to pursue about the fact that bạn stalked her for four months to make sure she wasn’t a woman bạn loved 145 years cách đây and still kept a picture of in your bedroom
2.Being truthful to a sad girl about stalking her to a cemetery
3.Being truthful to this girl about how bạn knew where her house was
4.Being truthful to this girl about how your parents, hoặc your father, really died
5.Being truthful to this girl about the fact that you’re immortal and will never grow old while she will
6.Being truthful to this girl about how bạn have this intense...
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I am in tình yêu with Vampire Diaries. However, it is my duty as a người hâm mộ to not stand aside and watch the writers and the những người hâm mộ of this spectacular hiển thị make the biggest mistake ever! tình yêu is a very passionate thing and no matter who Elena chooses in the end if she chooses stefan..... it will be the biggest mistake she will ever make in her life and for the Stelena fans..... bạn know I am write and bạn are probably thinking who the hell is this person Stefan is hot, well i will admit he is pretty hot, but tình yêu depends on passion and how much a person connects and damon and elena have a relationship(besides the sire bond) that i am pretty sure any girl hoặc maybe guy....... would kill for. so if the writers choose the wrong one i am sorry to say but they do not understand tình yêu and that is a shame because this is the perfect tình yêu story.
I asked myself why the Elena from the TV hiển thị is so different from the Elena from the books. In the books, Elena is a spoiled highschool Queen at the beginning of the story and stays very bossy throughout the books, while Katherine is a docile and obedient Renaissance girl, until she becomes insane. And one reason for this change in the characters could be that it is easier to hiển thị Delena’s development as twin flames. Because although it is not đã đưa ý kiến like in the books, all of the parallels of DE in the show, the fact that they are so much alike ("She already IS like me.") and everything else...
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After watching the amazing "I remember everything" 4x01 scene and Damon's awesome speech defending his decision to save her first, even if Matt had died, something has been playing on my mind that I wanted to write about and share with you.
Elena's logic about Stefan respecting her because he listened to her, whereas Damon is selfish and couldn't let go doesn't make sense.
Quick re-run of 3x22: Elena values Matt's life before her's, and her decision is for Matt to be saved first, even if it means she dies in the process. Stefan doesn't like this. He wants to save Elena first, not Matt, but...
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"I set out on a narrow way many years ago
Hoping I would find true tình yêu along a broken road
I got Mất tích a time hoặc two, wiped my brow
Kept pushing through
I couldn't see how every sign pointed straight to you

That every long Mất tích dream led me to where bạn are
And others who broke my heart,
They were just northern stars pointing me on my way
Into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God bless the broken road
That led me straight to you."

(Rascal Flatts)


Whenever I try to imagine what a picture of Delena's journey looks like, I know it wouldn't be one straight, smooth road, free from obstacles or...
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posted by DelenaDestiny
Stefan is way to nice-nice with Elena! He needs to be himself around her otherwise it is fake and everyone knows a fake relationship never ever works out well. Whenever Elena is around Damon she is happy and Damon isn't afraid to be himself around her. Sure they (Damon and Elena) have had their ups and downs, but they always manage to work it out in the end which proves that their relationship is much stronger than Stefan and Elena's! Stefan never tells Elena not to something, especially when she shouldn't do it. Damon would make sure that Elena would not do anything that could get her hurt.

Another reason is that Stefan can't control himself, he is a danger to the people around him because bạn never know when he will go off the rails and hurt someone. Damon does get mad and does stupid stuff, but he would never hurt Elena, no matter what!