Unless they have a good reason for not adding you .....

Unless your a troll or a rude user

I really dont mind. If they want to,they can if dont,Its ok :)

I only add ppl I really like. It's quality, not quantity that matters to me.

like in twitter , i follow them becuase i like them they shouldn't follow me back

I respect their decision. They are just being careful online. I understand.

NO. just NO. NICENESS is NOT about doing something and EXPECTING something in return. I try to be a nice person to everyone, but I don't want 5000 people on my Meebo! I want the people I talk to regularly! Geez. If one good turn deserves another then I greet them and give a smile and a prop... if they wish to talk to me or not after that it is their choice. If a person fans me, they should be fanning me because I have somehow made an impression that they LIKE or they are a fan of my comments or something... but they are a stranger to me. I fan who I am a "fan" of and that is not just anyone or everyone. I have quite a few fans, and only one person literally unfanned me and told me they only fanned me to get a fan... personally, i think that is BS... that is NOT nice. That is giving only seeking to GET when they might have recieved a friend... now they get squatto and no loss to me. Plus they had a guy icon and were posting in a provocative club. I think sometimes people need to be aware of the "image" they are sending & if that is what they want. They messaged me "Why won't you add me???!!" I apologised later. It was a 13 year old girl. (No names she is still active on here). Do people read profiles either or just simply like an icon or hit a button. I am selective in real life too thye closer one gets to me, but I will be friendly & a friend to just about anyone but that doesn't mean I am fan-you gotta earn some things... sorry, just my opinion.

I really do not even like the choices here... I say please and thank you... polite is defined by me differently.

WHATEVER! I love adding more and more friends! I even can find my very own BIFF (Best Internet Friend Forever) in each website!