Now before all bạn crazy on me, I’m not trying to bash Stefan hoặc anything it’s just something that I noticed throughout the 4 season of the series so bare with me till the end then bạn can argue as much as bạn want.
So let’s just look back to 1864, when Stefan & Damon meet Katherine for the first time, both boys feel for instantly and both had a relationship with her, it’s wasn’t that long that she showed/told what she really is a vampire, and it seemed like both boys have accepted for what/who she really is until their father informed them that he and rest of the council are hunting down ma cà rồng and told them that ma cà rồng are pure evil, have no humanity what so ever that we start to see that Stefan started to câu hỏi his tình yêu for Katherine and whether her does tình yêu this girl which lead him to basically telling/indicating that she was in fact vampire because it didn’t feel right to tình yêu someone so evil [which let’s face it she was kind of was but she never really showed her evil side to Stefan not fully], then we go to see that both brothers had Katherine’s blood in their system when their dad killed them so both of them were in transition, but as we saw/watched Stefan didn’t drink from Katherine willingly she had to compel him to dink from her because she knew that his tình yêu wasn’t enough to give up everything, unlike Damon who drunk from her willingly because his tình yêu was enough to give everything about himself for the woman that he loves. Unlike Stefan, Damon was able to tình yêu and accept Katherine for what/who she is at her best & worst, Stefan on the other hand can only tình yêu part of her
We come to S1, we can in begging Damon at his worst, Stefan being still the same person couldn’t tình yêu hoặc accept his own brother at his worst and tried to kill him in the name of helping/saving people and doing the right thing. But as we saw/watched later on in S1 Stefan himself had a darker side than his brother, unlike Stefan, Damon actually tried to help him control his dark side he accepted him for what/who he is, yet Stefan himself couldn’t accept himself and tried to kill himself.
Now we come to S4, Elena became a vampire [and even though a lot of people might argue that she changed she didn’t, she’s just thêm magnified of herself], we saw/watched Elena’s fear of Stefan not loving her that’s why she didn’t tell him about throwing up the animal blood because she knew deep down that he won’t be able to accept her for what/who she really is, and that was confirmed in 3x05 when Damon asked Stefan why does he want the cure, “do bạn wanna cure her because she’s a vampire and she’s not cutout to be? hoặc because bạn CAN’T tình yêu HER if she’s one?” which Stefan responded bởi “she’s NOT to be this person, I DON’T WANT her to be”
I think this conclude that Stefan’s tình yêu is conditional, not only for Elena hoặc his brother hoặc Katherine but even for HIMSELF he likes/loves himself with limits/conditions that’s why he couldn’t love/accept Elena/Damon/Katherine for their true selves because he can’t accept himself 100% and until he does his tình yêu for the people he cares about will never be enough
So let’s just look back to 1864, when Stefan & Damon meet Katherine for the first time, both boys feel for instantly and both had a relationship with her, it’s wasn’t that long that she showed/told what she really is a vampire, and it seemed like both boys have accepted for what/who she really is until their father informed them that he and rest of the council are hunting down ma cà rồng and told them that ma cà rồng are pure evil, have no humanity what so ever that we start to see that Stefan started to câu hỏi his tình yêu for Katherine and whether her does tình yêu this girl which lead him to basically telling/indicating that she was in fact vampire because it didn’t feel right to tình yêu someone so evil [which let’s face it she was kind of was but she never really showed her evil side to Stefan not fully], then we go to see that both brothers had Katherine’s blood in their system when their dad killed them so both of them were in transition, but as we saw/watched Stefan didn’t drink from Katherine willingly she had to compel him to dink from her because she knew that his tình yêu wasn’t enough to give up everything, unlike Damon who drunk from her willingly because his tình yêu was enough to give everything about himself for the woman that he loves. Unlike Stefan, Damon was able to tình yêu and accept Katherine for what/who she is at her best & worst, Stefan on the other hand can only tình yêu part of her
We come to S1, we can in begging Damon at his worst, Stefan being still the same person couldn’t tình yêu hoặc accept his own brother at his worst and tried to kill him in the name of helping/saving people and doing the right thing. But as we saw/watched later on in S1 Stefan himself had a darker side than his brother, unlike Stefan, Damon actually tried to help him control his dark side he accepted him for what/who he is, yet Stefan himself couldn’t accept himself and tried to kill himself.
Now we come to S4, Elena became a vampire [and even though a lot of people might argue that she changed she didn’t, she’s just thêm magnified of herself], we saw/watched Elena’s fear of Stefan not loving her that’s why she didn’t tell him about throwing up the animal blood because she knew deep down that he won’t be able to accept her for what/who she really is, and that was confirmed in 3x05 when Damon asked Stefan why does he want the cure, “do bạn wanna cure her because she’s a vampire and she’s not cutout to be? hoặc because bạn CAN’T tình yêu HER if she’s one?” which Stefan responded bởi “she’s NOT to be this person, I DON’T WANT her to be”
I think this conclude that Stefan’s tình yêu is conditional, not only for Elena hoặc his brother hoặc Katherine but even for HIMSELF he likes/loves himself with limits/conditions that’s why he couldn’t love/accept Elena/Damon/Katherine for their true selves because he can’t accept himself 100% and until he does his tình yêu for the people he cares about will never be enough
Tyler woke up and found himself chained onto a chair. “What the hell?”
“Oh, no, not hell. Heaven. That’s where you’ll soon be” a voice said. A voice that sounded horribly familiar. A shadow came over Tyler and Klaus came in vision.
“Seriously? bạn again? If I wanted to see your ugly face again I would’ve được trao bạn a call” Tyler đã đưa ý kiến annoyed. Being imprisoned bởi Klaus was getting really old. “Look, whatever bạn want with me, can bạn just get it over with already?”
“Oh, but of course” Klaus said. He bit his wrist and forced Tyler to drink his blood. Then he grabbed Tyler’s neck and snapped it.
“And now we wait” Klaus said.
“Oh, no, not hell. Heaven. That’s where you’ll soon be” a voice said. A voice that sounded horribly familiar. A shadow came over Tyler and Klaus came in vision.
“Seriously? bạn again? If I wanted to see your ugly face again I would’ve được trao bạn a call” Tyler đã đưa ý kiến annoyed. Being imprisoned bởi Klaus was getting really old. “Look, whatever bạn want with me, can bạn just get it over with already?”
“Oh, but of course” Klaus said. He bit his wrist and forced Tyler to drink his blood. Then he grabbed Tyler’s neck and snapped it.
“And now we wait” Klaus said.