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I m a 24 years male and still virgin.....my problem is thinking about the sex all the time...means all the time...I masturbate daily..in morning hoặc evening... All big boobs attract me..color doesn't matter.. I can't concentrate now...what should I do

 loader000 posted hơn một năm qua
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sarabeara said:
Being a virgin has nothing to do with how often bạn think about sex. That's entirely up to your sex drive. As for bạn masturbating once a day, there's nothing unhealthy about that. And again, nothing unhealthy about being attracted to boobs.

Unless you're saying bạn thinking about sex is getting in the way of your daily life...??
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Yup, I agree completely... I basically expounded upon your "What if...?" in my answer.
Cinders posted hơn một năm qua
Cinders said:
If this is affecting your daily life, then bạn might want to talk to your doctor hoặc therapist about it and see if bạn can get a referral to a support group hoặc specialist for sex addiction.

When I say that, I mean that every woman with a bust size bạn come across has bạn thinking about sex, and bạn can't concentrate on anything else, hoặc treat her as a person and interact with her normally without getting aroused.

I do not mean the passing thought of, "She's hot," and moving on with the conversation and the rest of your day. If bạn go trang chủ and think about her later, that's your business, and also normal.

If thinking about sex is interfering with your life in a big way, that's a problem.

Otherwise, bạn sound like a healthy twenty-four-year-old to me. And don't worry about being a virgin. I was a virgin at twenty-four, too. No shame in that.

Remember to treat everyone bạn meet with respect. Women (and men) are very sexy, but they're also human beings. Not that you're not doing that, but it's always a good thing to remember, especially in a spot like this.
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but some people say...masturbation is a bad habit..or it is unhealthy... is this true??...... is proustite good to loose virginity..or should i wait for the right one..??
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Unless prostitution is legal where bạn live, I would not consider that for an option just yet. Masturbation is not a bad habit, and has no negative side-affects. In fact, it may even have some health benefits, but nothing conclusive on that. The ONLY time it would be dangerous is if it is interfering with your everyday regular life. Otherwise, do it as much as bạn feel like.
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I understand the desire to lose your virginity. Instead of a prostitute, I'd suggest pursuing an actual relationship. If you're shy around women, try online dating. Lots of girls are shy, too. I think you'll feel better about everything if bạn lose your virginity to someone bạn care about. But if that really doesn't matter to bạn (how bạn feel about the girl), then that's cool, too. While I don't judge anyone for using an escort hoặc a prostitute, I also can't condone illegal behavior. Whatever bạn choose to do, make sure it's within the law of your area!
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thanks cinders...i m not shy around women...but how can i directly ask ??and then i think that what will she think about me?? no hoặc yes...and then i reject the idea of it...now i will try online dating... but how??
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