i need help!!

Cinders posted hơn một năm qua

Cinders posted hơn một năm qua

he might be lying and just wants to have SEX

Totally!!! If a guy justs wants to get into your pants, leave him. You're better than that- every woman is.

bạn gotta be ready 100percent in your mind before bạn jump on it hunny.if he pressures hes not worth it.If he can wait and respect your decision then hes a keeper ;)

u should always waut until ur ready

i like pie n monkeys n babys n video games see im not talkin about this i keep it g rated

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Quiztzhadrch posted hơn một năm qua

"What works"? Oh, don't be an ass. Great sex is about mutual respect. If it's not there, it's not worth it. It sounds to me like bạn don't respect anyone, least of all the women bạn fuck (over), so I'm sorry for bạn for that. But you're right, men and women have different approcahes to sex. It's biology that makes us thêm selective about our partners, because remember-- we have thêm invested in it than bạn do. So if bạn want to be a primitive ape and think "no means yes," then I guess all we have to do is sit back and wait for bạn to get arrested.

bạn are getting me all wrong. I don't believe that no means yes hoặc any of that nonsense. What I mean is that most young girls don't know what they want, but for sure if anyhting, they want attention and playing stupid mind games is the only way SOME of them get it. And, bởi the way, about your "investment", if a chick gets preggers and she doesnt want to have it she doesnt have to have it. But, if the chic wants to have it and the guy doesn't, who is really screwed then? And great sex FYI, is an act, not a relationship, so NO, bạn dont need to have mutual respect to come just as well as someone in love.

I'm not saying bạn have to be in love, I'm saying that even in a one night stand, it's only great sex if bạn care about the other person's needs. The average woman needs twenty phút of sexual activity to orgasm. Why do bạn think so many of them fake it? And the world is full of dead beat dads, if they want to be that way. It's also full of girls who give their guy a choice if they want to help raise the baby hoặc not. Women are not conniving schemers who trap men into paying child support hoặc marriage bởi getting pregnant. It's just as life-changing an experience for them, too. So no, the dad still has choices even if the mother chooses to keep and raise the baby. And if young girls don't know what they want, then maybe they should wait until they DO know what they want.

Let me begin bởi saying that the one thing we agree on is that this kid SHOULD wait, but I don't think she will. And she just wanted to share her experience with others, despite the probability that she already knows that she will do it. At least that's what it sounds like to me. SO as far as that item is concerned I guess we thêm hoặc less agree. Now, as far as deadbeat dads, look, people don't change. If bạn pick a guy to lay with whatever issues hoặc problems he might have all reflect on the fact that bạn made the decision to give it up to HIM. "Well he wasn't like that when we met.." Bullshit. Chicks are ALWAYS willing to overlook little details like his bad temper, lack of maturity, ect. to be with him. bạn and I and everyone đọc this knows it to be true. So again, pregnation occurs and the female always has the last and only say in wether hoặc not that kid is coming into the world. Furthermore, she cannot waive the child's rights bởi simply asking the guy if he wants to stick around hoặc not. The STATE will GO after him in every case and make him pay up, should she apply for help, reports low income ect.. So even if its a verbal agreement between them, the dummy who didnt wear a jimmy is assed out. SO the guys choices are this, pay up for the tiếp theo 18 years (by the way, actual proof of siring the child is NOT EVEN NECESSARY!), hoặc the moron can try to hide. In this hoặc any case, kids like the one who wrote in should wait to have sex, not because of emotional conditions, hoặc religious beliefs, but because she can ruin 3 lives in the process; hers, hs and the baby's. Will she wait? My magic eightball says: Not Likely.

bạn make it sound like she's the one with all the responsibility here. It takes two to tango, and in the majority of teenage cases, it's the horomone-driven male that instigates sexual activity, and pressures their partners into having sex. Some girls, whether they're ambivalent, confused, hoặc just tired of arguing, will just give in to that pressure. I'm not trying to excuse that behavior-- girls should be stronger in saying no, especially if they're not sure-- I'm just saying that it's not like the girl walks up to a guy and says "Let's have sex so we can ruin both our lives." The guy has to think about what he's doing too. So to be honest, I don't have much sympathy for guys, even if they are chased down to pay child support, because he is part of the equation anyway. And back before paternity testing, all a guy needed was to "prove" that his girlfriend slept with at least one other man to brand her as a whore for the rest of her life and weasle out of his responisbility. My point is, that both young girls AND young boys have sex too early when they aren't mature enough to handle it. I'd rather have a girl come on here searching for reassurance in her choice of abstinence then one who doesn't and comes instead saying she made a mistake and got pregnant. Whatever this user chooses to do, we (or that is, the majority of us) advised her the best we could. It's up to her what she does with that advice. But women aren't the devil when it comes to sexual relations. They're young, scared and confused about their body, just like any young boy. And bởi the way, it's not so easy to give up a child for adoption, and even less easy to get an abortion, so these aren't choices that women make lightly. And I do know a girl who chose to tell her boyfriend that she's pregnant and gave him the choice, but she didn't "go after him" and he's not paying her a dime. She's raising her child with the help of her sister and her parents.

Everything you're saying is fine. bạn have no sympathy for guys. Ok. They're young and scared, Ok. it's not easy to give up a child for adoption, hoặc abort, Ok. but let's not forget the points we've agreed on. Kids shouldn't F, but they do. Men should share the responsibility of child rearing, but many do not. Point is, I'm not saying what should be. I'm saying what IS. Now, the main problem here is that as adolecents guy classicaly instigate the sexual union, while girls resist. It's always been like that, it's true. So doesn't that illustrate my point that girls Do have the last word on accepting hoặc declining sexual advances? On having an abortion hoặc adoption? It's a fact that they do. "yeah but guys should.." no, no, no. IT is a FACT. So, moral fortitude, willpower, emotional stability are OUT. I will say for the last time; this "little girl" who in 2 thêm years will be able to vote in a presidential election, has pretty much decided how she's gonna handle HER problem... she just wants attention. Just one final obsevation before I lay this tired, tired mater to rest: your friend raising her child alone w/the help of family might not need him hoặc his money now. but when, not if, WHEN she becomes bitter, hoặc tired hoặc needy enough to change her mind about their current status, all she would need to do is mak 1 call to the dept of state and they will collect for her rather than pay her anything. So, it's not about her hoặc herchoices.. fools like that are living under the sword, just waiting for it to fall. So boys out there, you've heard how chics think; how they have no sympathy for young people who make mistakes (as long as they're not females) and how sweet, innocent attention hungry chics should be protected at all costs from "sleezbags" and "weasels" and "deadbeats." That's how they see us. Ok, then I say; don't ngày steady. Don't make promises. Be a jerk, cause that what all chics say about their ex-boyfriends.. after giving it up to them. And most importantly: Don't marry your High School sweetheart, it's almost always a disaster. Peace!

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