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I need help! Should I stay hoặc leave?

I wouldn't ask for anyones help hoặc opinion I wouldn't waist your time. But I need some opinions please

Long story short so I met a guy online. He lives in texas and i tình yêu in denver. We've exchanged pictures, talked on the phone, played online with him, We Skyped. I grew fond of him and we've developed a really strong friendship. I planed to fly down after I tured 18 in July. He has everything all set up for me to fly down hoặc take a bus. But here the problem.... my parents refuse to let me take this trip. They have called me every name and the book and that I'm selfie and brain washed. I've planed to come back I'm not leaving forever. Only a week in July to see if we click. My parents have told me if I leave they will disown me I will not be accepted bởi then back if for some reason him and I don't "click".

Should I go against there wishes and go anyway because it's what I want.

Do I obey what they đã đưa ý kiến because if I take this risk and it doesn't work I will have no family left.

Please leave your full opinion. Be blunt LOL – Liên minh huyền thoại I need a new perspective thank bạn so much.
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Why are they hating this? Have a rational conversation with them. What are their reasons?
Zippy100 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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I have 100% tried having a rashional conversation they haven't met him there for its not okay.
DanDan211985 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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There afraid of losing the person that cooks and cleans for them it's not just worried about my safety
DanDan211985 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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greyswan618 said:
Why can't he come to you?Tell him the situation with your parents and see what he says.If he agrees to come down to bạn then ask if maybe your parents can meet him to see what he's like in person to see if bạn are compatible and maybe hoặc maybe not they will let bạn visit him after bạn turn 18.
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posted cách đây 4 tháng 
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That is a good point.
Zippy100 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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BlindBandit92 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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I hope I am not too late to put in my opinion - I have to say that even though bạn don't believe that your parents are concerned about your safety, there is still a very strong concern about a young female going to meet a man for the first time. It is best that he comes to meet you, your parents and others that tình yêu you. Let them check him out etc. There have been so many cases where women have been placed in danger bởi meeting a man the way he is proposing. If he does not agree - then bạn know there is something amiss and bạn would be an toàn, két an toàn not meeting him ever.
MaxandMart posted cách đây 3 tháng
Rihanna312 said:
Well, I`d say a lot depends on how old bạn both are. Maybe bạn are too young to travel like this alone and bạn parents are just worried. But if bạn are old enough and maybe have traveled somewhere alone before, I think bạn should talk to them and explain everything again.
They probably just are worried that the guy is not what he tells to be. With all those stories about catfishing online. bạn could also let them have a short convo with him over skype, so they see that he isn`t some creepy 50+yo weirdo.
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posted cách đây 4 tháng 
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I'm 18 lol. No I haven't traveled anywhere before but I have worked in fast thực phẩm at a truck stop. They have there mind set but I will discuss with them again and again until I chose to leave hoặc figure out a plan em your absolutely right but they have other kids they have met people online and they were who they đã đưa ý kiến they were. I'm the last of there kids so they have alot of expectations. Thank bạn so much I will definitely consider the Skype =]
DanDan211985 posted cách đây 4 tháng
TheLefteris24 said:
How long have bạn been knowing this person? Are bạn that confident about the trust both of bạn have built in the meanwhile? If bạn feel that everything concerning this trip is safe, then feel free to do it. Concerning your parents, did bạn talked it out with them? Sitting down and having a conversation about the Friendship bạn share with the person bạn want to visit can go a long way. If bạn have done that and they still refuse to let bạn go, how about taking them with bạn hoặc introduce your Friend to them through Skype? They just seem to be pretty worried for bạn and it is only natural since quite a few cases of meeting through the Web didn't end well. bạn đã đưa ý kiến that bạn have turned 18 but that means bạn only just now legally reached adulthood. To a Parent, their Kids will always been seen as such. Those threats are only an indication of their fear. I wouldn't place much thought on them. I would suggest to take some time and try to work out things with them as best as bạn can. If things are just as genuine as they seem, they will realize it. Your Friend might wait a bit but I am sure he will respect that. bạn have all the time in the World to meet him. Especially since bạn two have developed a strong bond as bạn đã đưa ý kiến !!!!
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Not everyone is bluffing with the disowning man. Some people are serious. bạn probably shouldn't tell people they might not mean it because quite often people do and people generally don't throw out disowning as a threat.
BlindBandit92 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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^ I told her not to worry sick about it. Not disregard it completely. The fact that they used such a threat over a matter like this is an indication of how much they worry about her. That is how it comes across to me. Personally, I have seen disowning being a pretty common form of Persuasiveness. The possibility of being a bluff still exists. Regardless, things need to be worked out with her parents. A point like that can be pretty easily avoided bởi following one of the possible solutions that has been proposed in here hoặc finding something other way of her own !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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I'm glad if I could help in any way possible. You're welcome !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted cách đây 4 tháng
BlindBandit92 said:
Aside from potentially being disowned. bạn might want to also reaffirm that he's an okay guy because there's been instances where guys and girls met people online and it did not go the way they planned at all.

Otherwise if bạn do take the trip maybe ask your siblings to allow bạn to take if they disown you? I am sorry I don't really have advise for bạn as I have not been in this situation.
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I've been talking to them asking and asking and explaining. And I do know that about guys and girls meeting online sometimes people just don't get along. I will definitely consult my siblings before I leave there just gunna talk me out of it tho lol. xin chào Lời khuyên is Lời khuyên I very much appreciate it alot
DanDan211985 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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^NO it's not just not getting alone some people kidnap people online. bạn need to be careful who bạn meet.
BlindBandit92 posted cách đây 4 tháng
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^Alright np
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