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I'm only posting this here because the Lời khuyên spot is kinda dead and I feel I'll have thêm luck here.
I'm gonna try to explain my situation as briefly as possible. Please chịu, gấu with me :L I'm really in need of advice.
So, typical issue: I'm heavily infatuated with my guy friend. I've liked him for a long time now, and I can honestly say I've NEVER liked a guy as much as I like him. We hang out twice per week at a lounge, doing homework and stuff like that, because we both have time gaps between classes. I absolutely tình yêu those days; being with him is always the highlight of my ngày and I feel that we connect really well. I even went to his band's buổi hòa nhạc with a mutual friend down in another city a few weeks ago. I feel like I flirt with him a lot, but he seems to be one of those guys who doesn't really pick up on it. (He is very intelligent, don't get me wrong).
I used to always scoff at the idea of actually telling him how I feel. However, lately I've been contemplating the idea of it. I tình yêu the friendship we've developed and I'd hate to ruin it. Also... I don't think he likes me in that way. I mean, I suppose it's possible, but it hasn't been made evident and I know it's highly likely he only thinks of me as a friend. But the thing is... I still just want to tell him. I hate keeping such a big secret from him and it makes me feel like I'm being dishonest in a way. Also, I'd hate to live with the regret of "what could've been" if I would've tried. There's no guarantee that telling him will ruin the friendship, but I still am afraid to take the risk.
There are about 5 weeks left of the semester, and I don't know if we'll both have break times between classes again tiếp theo semester. So that means these could be my last 5 weeks of seeing him regularly and my last opportunities to try and "take action." People say to just casually ask him to go do something like a movie hoặc a meal, but I feel that might be a little weird to ask that since we hang out regularly
I'm gonna try to explain my situation as briefly as possible. Please chịu, gấu with me :L I'm really in need of advice.
So, typical issue: I'm heavily infatuated with my guy friend. I've liked him for a long time now, and I can honestly say I've NEVER liked a guy as much as I like him. We hang out twice per week at a lounge, doing homework and stuff like that, because we both have time gaps between classes. I absolutely tình yêu those days; being with him is always the highlight of my ngày and I feel that we connect really well. I even went to his band's buổi hòa nhạc with a mutual friend down in another city a few weeks ago. I feel like I flirt with him a lot, but he seems to be one of those guys who doesn't really pick up on it. (He is very intelligent, don't get me wrong).
I used to always scoff at the idea of actually telling him how I feel. However, lately I've been contemplating the idea of it. I tình yêu the friendship we've developed and I'd hate to ruin it. Also... I don't think he likes me in that way. I mean, I suppose it's possible, but it hasn't been made evident and I know it's highly likely he only thinks of me as a friend. But the thing is... I still just want to tell him. I hate keeping such a big secret from him and it makes me feel like I'm being dishonest in a way. Also, I'd hate to live with the regret of "what could've been" if I would've tried. There's no guarantee that telling him will ruin the friendship, but I still am afraid to take the risk.
There are about 5 weeks left of the semester, and I don't know if we'll both have break times between classes again tiếp theo semester. So that means these could be my last 5 weeks of seeing him regularly and my last opportunities to try and "take action." People say to just casually ask him to go do something like a movie hoặc a meal, but I feel that might be a little weird to ask that since we hang out regularly
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