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Cutting?

i'm a cutter. it's almost an addiction. what do i do?
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It IS a form of addiction. I suggest bạn ask someone bạn really trust for help. It's not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength to realize something has escalated into a big problem that bạn can't solve on your own.
april333 posted hơn một năm qua
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RobinFan360 said:
Depends on the reason.
I don't know how it feels since I don't cut, but maybe bạn can try and handle it like sucking your thumb? Put something over your wrists(or wherever bạn cut) that bạn can't open. Maybe like a bunch of duct tape? hoặc something that needs a code to unlock which only a family member would know?

And then maybe bạn could try cutting something else if the reason bạn cut is to vent your frustration.

Again I don't really know much :/
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Why would she lock something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted hơn một năm qua
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^ so she can't cut it
XxKeithHarkinxX posted hơn một năm qua
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What does she means bởi locking something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted hơn một năm qua
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I don't know. Something like a big bracelet that can have a little lock
RobinFan360 posted hơn một năm qua
seeuvocaloid3 said:
message me so we can talk about it because this type of stuff is serious
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okay
Castalinia posted hơn một năm qua
XxKeithHarkinxX said:
STOP!
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......it's hard
Castalinia posted hơn một năm qua
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I know, i know noting about this, but it does bạn no good it just hurts bạn more, wear rubber wrist bands so bạn can't.
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loYol said:
Well for one, try stopping. If bạn can't stop, remove all sharp objects away from yourself. When bạn feel the need to cut, try to distract yourself. Maybe find some new hobbies.

Secondly, get help.
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Panda-Hero said:
Stop. Wear a áo khoác ALL ngày (I know it's hot but I wear jackets every ngày Bl) so bạn don't see your arms, and stay around your family so bạn won't have time hoặc privacy to cut yourself.
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adultswimperson said:
Mental Hospital.

True story.
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Nopenopenope
Dogtier posted hơn một năm qua
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NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO
Castalinia posted hơn một năm qua
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@Castalinia, If your parents don't want bạn to die then bạn should stop starting now, otherwise they WILL send bạn to one because they think your trying to commit suicide.
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buffyl0v3r44 said:
I think bạn should try to talk to someone close to bạn about it, most people would recommend a psychiatrist, but truthfully I don't think they work, but xin chào whatever works for you. Cutting yourself doesn't solve any problems so just stop. bạn obviously have issues if your trying to hurt yourself, so I think bạn just to relax and take things easy for a while. I checked thông tin các nhân out and bạn seem quite depressed, emo, ect. so I think bạn should take that off your thông tin các nhân and make it happier, I think that its just reminding bạn of the pain your going through, so I think if bạn start telling yourself positive things and being thêm positive then it will take bạn of the dark and bring bạn thêm into the light. I hoped this helped, sorry I'm not the best at giving advice, but if your not comfortable talking to family hoặc Những người bạn then bạn are thêm than welcome to message me anytime!
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JamesMalsow said:
ummm go some where were their is no knifes hoặc any thing sharp!!!
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 ummm go some where were their is no knifes hoặc any thing sharp!!!
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i use pencil sharpener blades
Castalinia posted hơn một năm qua
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oh but still
JamesMalsow posted hơn một năm qua
TheDirector said:
If bạn can, bạn should see a psychologist. And I'm not saying that because there's something wrong with you.

People tend to cut themselves when they've gone through something traumatizing hoặc a terrible tragedy.

Psychologists are here to help people like you. They talk through your problems with bạn and try their very best to help bạn stop whatever problem hoặc "addiction" that bạn are going through.

If bạn cannot see a psychologist, then try talking to a friend that bạn know bạn can rely on.

If bạn don't have a friend bạn can rely on, then I'm always available to talk to. I've dealt with cases such as yours, and I'm nonjudgmental in every aspect, but it's all up to you.

Best of luck, sweetie!


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Thanks. The only friend i have lives in Dallas (an giờ away from me) and is moving in July because her father is in the war.
Castalinia posted hơn một năm qua
Ale1152 said:
Like I fucking đã đưa ý kiến on the Lời khuyên spot, bạn fucking stop. No matter what. It's fucking stupid to do something like that.
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Agreed...
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canddfan29 said:
don't cut yourself! why do bạn do that?!
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noahnstar1616 said:
Wow. I know you're depressed, but wow...
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x-menobsessed26 said:
Just like I đã đăng in the câu hỏi bạn asked in the Lời khuyên section, talk to me if bạn need to. Sometimes it helps thêm when bạn know someone is listening. I know my friend ComicLover13 also does things like this. Everything bạn say stays between bạn and me. We've done this many times for many different people.
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Thanks. i will
Castalinia posted hơn một năm qua
RainbowOtakuX3 said:
bạn should try to find a healthier way to express your negative feelings.
Like, crying, talking to someone, convey your feelings onto paper.. Like a journal hoặc diary.. Something other than hurting yourself.
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But it helps...a little
Castalinia posted hơn một năm qua
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^ Even so, it's not healthy. Just.. try to relieve yourself of the habbit of cutting, and try something else that could be equally as effective.
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Me_Iz_Here said:
Try to stop. Easier đã đưa ý kiến than done, I know. But just try. If it's too hard, talk to someone. It can just be a friend, family member, anyone bạn can trust. Even if you're uncomfortable with it, bạn have to tell someone. Also, try to avoid any triggers. Sorry, I'd tình yêu to help thêm but I'm not a very helpful person. :/
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It's okay. bạn did help.
Castalinia posted hơn một năm qua
Dogtier said:
Well... I recommend talking to someone bạn trust. People bạn know won't exploit you, hoặc blackmail bạn are anything like that.
Talk to them about it, vent to them. That helps quite a bit, and puts less stress on you, and hopefully controls the urge to cut.

I know, quitting is hard, but it's not worth it in the end. Hurting yourself, harming yourself, killing yourself does absolutely nothing.
There are many things to look phía trước, chuyển tiếp to, many positive things and good people, and ending all those chances at happiness and all that is NOT worth it.
I'm sure your Những người bạn and family care about bạn and would be very upset if that happened.
I'm saying this because I know cutting can turn into something more. And that's never good.

I'm am bad at giving advice. This is a subject I take seriously... so I tried to help to the best of my ability.
Sorry if my Lời khuyên sucks.
Just remember there are people out there that really care.
If worse comes to worse, talk to me. I'm willing to hear bạn out, always.
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Thanks......:'(
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Mecksey said:
Castalinia, I used to do the same thing. My wrist is covered with scars. And I used to make eraser marks on my lower stomach. Also on my left leg. It seemed impossible for me to stop. I was addicted, too. To be honest, my parents didn't seem to help me. So I talked to my aunt. And then I talked with my counselor. She helped me realize why I did cut. I cut because I felt I was ugly, that people hated me and were out to get me dead. That's how I felt. She helped me realize that I'm beautiful because I'm me. There's no other me. And she made me realize that I don't need people to like me to get through life. I don't need a lot of Những người bạn to be happy. My life's for me, not anyone else. I've also realized that I can also have someone to help me be happy. For me, that's Ralph Macchio. Just watching his movies, hoặc looking at him, hoặc hearing his voice makes me happy. He's another reason that helped me stop.

I'm sorry this probably didn't help.
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springely said:
An hero.
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KJBiggestFan said:
Stop telling the internet and get HELP.
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ripper124 said:
Idk... when your a grown up bạn can get a job the cut this. That sounds fun. ^-^
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ilovemichael17 said:
find something to distract you. i have a friend who used to do it but she found something to keep her mind off of it and she stopped almost automatically
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BeastBoyCahill said:
ಠ_ಠ
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Please...
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i know. i'm sorry, Beasty.
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