Is the socially fair?

Just wait to make a Facebook. I can understand why a mother wouldn't want her 14 năm old having one (I checked your profile). She might let up later on, but if she doesn't, once bạn turn 18, bạn can do whatever bạn please on the internet.

The no talking to boys rule is a bit extreme. If bạn go to a public school, I don't see how it's even possible to not talk to boys. Where I am, nobody really dated until one of the two were old enough to drive. Waiting another two years shouldn't be such a huge deal.
bạn can still talk to guys and get to know them at school. Do the mini-dating thing. Eat lunch together and such. Your mom really doesn't need to know who bạn eat lunch with.

I understand the Facebook thing, i mean if it were me i would become completely obsessed and that's why i don't have one...

i don't get the dating thing i mean bạn can't even be Những người bạn with a guy? Seriously...?

I understand both of them...Facebook is not a necessity and if bạn really want one, technically bạn can still get one without her permission. Although the not even being Những người bạn thing is extreme, I wasn't allowed to ngày until I was sixteen and even now I'm sure daddy will be cleaning his gun when I bring a boy home, but as long as you're under her roof it's really her choice.