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Can bạn give me advice?

My 2 "friends" get mad at me for no reason. Like today when they "jokingly" called a guy (kinda sorta my boyfriend... its complicated) an idiot, and they got mad when I got upset. This happens weekly, and sometimes they call me and my Những người bạn idiots. They also write mean notes when they are mad at me. What should I do? Should I "dump" them hoặc deal with it? (when i try to tell them they deny it)
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I'm fanning all of bạn for helping me. U don't know how much this helps me! THX!
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8theGreat said:
Do NOT just let this slide. Never let things like that slide.
bạn can either address them with the problem in the calmest and most mature manner possible, hoặc bạn can simply stop being Những người bạn with them. If bạn ask me, bạn should try to address them to at least do as much about their perspective on it as possible, just to see both sides of the story in a balanced manner before making any definite decisions. Find out why, and find out if the problem can be resolved for future situations. However, I don't know the story in full, so I can't tell bạn what is exactly best to do and the real choice is up to you.
However! Do not lash out in a violent hoặc disrespectful manner as it will only escalate the problem and it may get bạn in trouble as well.

Gah, sorry for the soap box... In a nut shell, I strongly suggest that bạn approach it in the most mature and reasonable manner possible and in the extents that bạn find most necessary. Evaluate and see if the problem can be and is worth fixing, and use your best judgement to make decisions afterward.
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thx and its ok its helpful and detailed
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adultswimperson said:
Leave them and don't make any contact with them whatsoever, there not your friends, there just douchebags that want to push your buttons so they'll think you'll go over the limit.
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r-pattz said:
Tell them they're shallow fake assholes who deserve the ultimate punishment of spending the rest of their lives listening to nothing but Taylor Swift~

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nice one
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CMxJ2xKA_L0Ve said:
Dump em! Kick em to the curb! Break their itty bitty hearts! Say it however bạn want. Những người bạn are supposed to make bạn happy not sad!
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thx
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iamagagamonster said:
I say ditch them at a buổi hòa nhạc and di chuyển to london
if bạn live in london, Your in good hands -thumbs up-
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 I say ditch them at a buổi hòa nhạc and di chuyển to Luân Đôn if bạn live in london, Your in good hands -thumbs up-
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YAY! I tình yêu british people!
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haha
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thx
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bubblegum_kiss said:
well if theyre just "friends" (i assume that the quotation marks mean theyre not very good Những người bạn to you)then bạn should get rid of them. point being "friends" with people who write bạn mean notes and call bạn an idiot.
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thx
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Jeffersonian said:
"Dump" them, if they can't be nice they don't deserve your friendship.
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