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I feel like there is no where to turn. Everywhere I go I hear people talking about me, calling me stupid ugly. I can't take it anymore, even some of my Những người bạn are treating me bad. I went to one of myy Những người bạn party and we decided to play a game, there was two way to decide who gose first the ugliest hoặc the oldest they chose the ugliest and stared with me. I feel so alone, I've talked to people and still its no help, no one seems to understand how i feel, and i can't trust anyone. I really need help and I feel like if I don't get help soon, i'm going to end up hurting myself. Dose anyone have any websites that could help me hoặc something please? I'm in desparte need of it.

 rose12345 posted hơn một năm qua
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DibLuver25 said:
I was in the same situation bạn were last year, I turned to cutting and it didn't help at all. Sure it took my mind off the emotional pain, but in reality it was only giving me something to hide. Something thêm to add to all the drama. I really don't know what to tell you, but things get better, trust me. I went through the same thing. I really don't have any recources to help you, im really sorry. Maybe bạn could try telling your Những người bạn bạn don't like it when they do that, and if they continue then I wouldn't be their friend anymore, it's just not worth it. As to deal with the bullies, just ignore them. It may be near impossible to do, but all bullies really want is to see bạn suffer, why give them the satisfaction? They don't know anything, bullies are just ignorant and closed minded people. Also, maybe bạn could start doing something bạn enjoy, like for me I let out my emotions using thi ca and drawing. It helped me get it all out without hurting myself. I also learned that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, who are they to judge? People call me crazy for not caring, but I don't really care. Of course it still hurts when I get made fun of, but it's become easier and easier to realize that everyone who judges me for what I look like is a closed minded idiot. I hope this helped, I wish bạn the best of luck!
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Thank bạn that helps alot
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azkaban said:
They're obviously not your friends
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yea. i guess not
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_naiza said:
Just tell them to fuck themselves _|_
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That won't work t only maks them talk thêm
rose12345 posted hơn một năm qua
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Just don't care, I'm sure, in your school still have people that tình yêu bạn :D
_naiza posted hơn một năm qua
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yea
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someone_save_me said:
No, I'm sorry... have bạn told your parents/guardians about this?
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kinda of, not everything, but all they keep saying is it'll get better. but its not
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Shadowmarioking said:
Don't hurt yourself, you'll only make the situation worse. I've been bullied before, and the best thing to do is to ignore what others say. Even better, talk back to them in a way like this:
Bully: God you're so ugly
You: Why thank you, I do look bad today huh? Oh well! *small giggle*
That'll hiển thị them that you're not affected bởi what they say, and eventually they'll stop.
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Alright i'll try
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Yeah if bạn act like bạn don't care then they will stop because they'll realize it's pointless since it has no effect on bạn
azkaban posted hơn một năm qua
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I agree, if bạn hiển thị them that it doesn't bother you, they'll leave bạn alone.
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LittleOtaku1 said:
do this to all of them:

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LOL – Liên minh huyền thoại thats funny
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narlyvamp1234 said:
dont hurt yourself, it never resolves the problem. i know a website, look up hell correspondence, type in the names of your tormentors and i will get revenge on them for you, dont worry, your grievance shall be avenged.
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alright thanks
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your welcome
narlyvamp1234 posted hơn một năm qua
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uhh it says u will go to hell -_-
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JaseKS said:
I know exactly how bạn feel. All the guys at my school joke around and say they like me, and it drives me nuts. They taunt me, and I dont talk much, and they wont shut up and leave me alone. bạn can talk to me anytime.
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Thanks
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chattycandy said:
this maybe
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im not sure but try it
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alright thank bạn
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Sasume said:
Well I can tell bạn from experience that whatever happens, there is nothing that demands the absolute worst solution that is irreversible. I'm sad to hear that even your Những người bạn won't help you. This might sound cheesy but that truly means that they're not your friends. Real Những người bạn won't try to bring bạn down, they'll support bạn and help you. Maybe it's time bạn found new friends? Think about it this way: is EVERYONE really talking bad about you? bạn make it worse on yourself when bạn silently agree with the bullies. Why don't bạn do something bạn love? Play an instrument, a sport, read a book, listen to music. Try to distract yourself with something fun. If that fails I would suggest see a counselor hoặc something. I may not know you, but I want bạn to be ok. Good luck!
This website might help:
link
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Thanks
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springely said:
Tell them bạn don't care, and tell them if bạn keep bothering you, bạn will get them in trouble. If they keep doing it, tell your parents, then tell your teachers. bạn need to hiển thị that bạn don't want them anymore, and bạn should tell them to go away.
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That's only going to make it harder on me, and if i tell it'll make it worst
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BabyBlud said:
This is a link to a website that shows different đường dẫn to other sites about bullying and how to handle it -

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However if your Những người bạn are starting to bully bạn too, just to be 'in the crowd' then they are not true Những người bạn and bạn are better off without them.
I can't say whether you're ugly hoặc not as i don't know what bạn look like, and sure bạn may not be the prettiest one in the school, but i'm certain there is one aspect of bạn that is gorgeous. Have bạn ever thought that these people are bullying bạn because they're jealous?
bạn have something they don't and they want it, and to hiển thị that they are hounding bạn to put bạn down so low bạn can't even accept yourself. Don't let them.
My Lời khuyên is that bạn tell your parents, sit them down and explain that because of all the bullying and their 'it'll get better attitude' bạn feel as though they don't care, that they have no time to help. If bullying doesn't get nipped in the bud once it starts then it can go on for years and years. And it can also lead to death. A dear friend of mine was bullied all the way through school, and on the last năm he'd had enough and drowned himself. Because of that i've always felt the bullies had won. If bạn start harming yourself, you're hiển thị these bullies that what they are doing to bạn is working. Try to ignore them as much as bạn can as they'll get bored and stop once they know their words aren't taking effect. Go talk to your teachers, write letters to the board, ask the headmistress/master to do something. They have an obligation to stop this, i'm sure the school has a no bullying policy, so get them to use it and enforce it.
Hope everything gets sorted for bạn soon, and bạn need anyone to talk to i'm only a message away.
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Thanks
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taismo723 said:
I too was bullied. but bởi this asshole who didn't like me at all for some unknown reason. He đã đưa ý kiến "I hate Arizona cuz it reminds me of Kacey. (me)". And one ngày my teacher asked us if we would rather sit with people hoặc alone because we sat near each other for a while. The kid đã đưa ý kiến company, but I đã đưa ý kiến I'd rather die in a hole. Which was very true. Eventually after he moved, I sent him a message on Facebook about him being fat. But that is not what bạn should do.

I adivse bạn ignore them, and hiển thị them that bạn don't give a shit. they should leave bạn alone.
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thanks
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invaderlin123 said:
i get this all the time sweety
i have some difficulties on what im obsessed with take Yaoi for example me and my Những người bạn tình yêu Yaoi but they make fun of some of the couples i like.
ad some of my Những người bạn dont like Yaoi at all and they make fun of me and push me in the lockers and they call me things like gay-lover and ignorant.
then one ngày one of my Những người bạn in chorus asked me why i like Yaoi so much i told her that its what i tình yêu and if she couldnt accept that than that we shouldnt be Những người bạn anymore. then i told her how i felt when she called me names and she talks behind my back. she đã đưa ý kiến " oh i understand im sorry" and we both hugged :) all bạn gotta do is talk things out and tell them how bạn feel and if they dont accept bạn for who bạn are then bạn should just end the friendship cause its not worth it
thx for listening :D ~lin ♥
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thanks
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np
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