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Any advice,please? I need help!

So my dog died couple of days cách đây but my mom didn't tell me.. She đã đưa ý kiến "he run off" and "what are bạn going to do when he dies,he is old.." but i didn't want to think anything over.. Than i overheard my brother and grandmother talking about lying to me because i'll be sad.. And from then i pressed my feelings but now it just came up.. I act in school like everything's okay but i don't know who i should talk to.. i'm so sad and even thêm sadder than my family didn't tell me.. I spend my life with him and now he's gone.. I'm starting to cry even when i think of him,and bạn should know i don't cry allot..
Please help me,what should i do? :'(
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Goldilottes said:
I'm in a similar situation to this.
bạn need some time to be on your own without any disturbances to come to terms with everything. bạn need to understand that your family were worried about bạn being upset about the dog, so thats why they didnt tell you, although personally i think they should never have lied to you. bạn need to, when the time is right, talk to the most trusted member of your family about your feelings and everything, and calmly ask why they lied to you. there's probably a good reason, and get things out in the open and cleared up.

A lot of bad things have happened to me too recently so i know what bạn mean about the pretending everythings ok at school, because that seems like the easiest way. maybe if bạn have a really trusted best friend bạn could tell her how yu feel, hoặc even your favourite teacher if they are nice. I've felt the same as youve described since my special cat died too- a couple of months ago, which was partially my fault and i feel terrible about it and cry all the time because of the other pressures too. I am planning in the tiếp theo few months to get a new rescue kitten to make me feel better and to keep my other cat company. maybe bạn could, in a few months after everythings settled down go out to choose your own rescue puppy, and youd feel better because bạn were giving an animal a home. bạn should talk this through with your family and tell them how much it would mean to you.
bạn should also keep a locked diary of your current feelings hoặc a mật khẩu protected word document- you'd be surprised how much easier it feels just to have it all on paper instead of clogging up your mind.
bạn should also get some hobbie to take your minbd off things- maybe look in the back of tabloids for hobbies hoặc youth clubs, hoặc your school bulletin / noticeboard for after school clubs. hoặc even arrange a ngày out hoặc a sleepover with your Những người bạn and tell them some things about how bạn feel then with out the pressure of school.

If bạn do all hoặc some of these things, hopefully bạn will start to feel better. Hopefully bạn will feel a bit better soon x

Lottey<3 XX
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thank bạn so much
piperleoforever posted hơn một năm qua
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xx its ok hun :)
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